2006-07-01 17:43:52 · 34 answers · asked by JJ 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
How about offering to leave.
2006-07-01 17:46:37 · answer #1 · answered by Who cares 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are some unknowns in this question. And also, sex is shared not offered as a gift. Unless you are playing some little fantasy game with you as a present and her as the Christmas tree. (Let me know how that one plays out, btw)
But in answer to your question, open honest communication and a genuine interest in her as a person.
Materially, the margin is vast, you need to tailor to your budget and there are gifts for almost any budget. A single rose or a whole bouquet, a trip to the lingerie store where you both benefit, a nice dinner out or at home that you shop for, prepare for and clean up after. A call to her at work just to say "Hi, was just thinking of you" believe me she will be more than intrigued and will reward you greatly in your private moments. Don't know what it will be but you are sure to enjoy. Or a whole bouquet sent to work, which will be in full view of other staff. Will make her the envy to have such a thoughtful gift. The list is endless....but you sound like you really want to please her so whatever you give just be genuine. Good luck to you.
2006-07-01 18:09:53 · answer #2 · answered by -Tequila17 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex isn't just something females offer males as an attempt to make them their boyfriend or whatever, it's what keeps the human race going. Do you really think your mother is a "bland braindead zombie without a personality" even though she raised you, loved you, and took care of you while you were young? Even if you were adopted, the person/people who adopted you chose you instead of anyone else because they loved you, or if you were put up for adoption but didn't get adopted, at least your parent's wanted a better life for you (Now you have no real excuse for that one). Also, I'm guessing a girl wouldn't want anything to do with you if they knew how you really viewed her along with the rest of the female population, even if she was extremely drunk.
2016-03-27 00:47:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put on some nice clothes and take her out once a week. And dont forget the Flowers. No roses, they're boring. Something different.
It's all about quality, not quantity. Sheesh, it's not that hard!
Be open-minded about what activities you both are doing that day/night. And have fun. Don't be a jerk.
2006-07-01 17:52:29 · answer #4 · answered by theVoiceWithin... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about a good movie, some jewelry, and some good conversation so she gets to know you. Sex alone doesn't get you there. Go for a boat ride. Learn to ballroom dance together. Join an interest group.
2006-07-01 18:06:05 · answer #5 · answered by Elwood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ask this question as if you are fickled in a puzzling way, but very boastful which makes me believe that you are probably the worst lover.
To answer your question FRIENDSHIP is the best thing to offer because if your relationship fails, maybe the friendship won't
2006-07-09 10:16:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Allow her to explore other areas of her life as well. help her to figure out what she likes, who she really is inside. Both sexes have made the same mistakes: Thinking that the girl can change her guy, and the guy thinking that his girl will never change...both are WRONG. She is going to be in a constant state of change throughout her life and she will only be able to change you if you are willing to change anything.
so help her explore her life, enjoy the ride with her, and show her you appreciate every aspect of her life.
2006-07-01 18:11:01 · answer #7 · answered by solpredator 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let your friends have a little fun with her, too... duhhhh... gosh, you must be quite the stud, eh? Why don't you just treat her with a bit of love ( that's not spelled s.e.x.) and respect? Get to know her as a person, not a f**k toy for your amusement.... hmm... maybe letting a friend spend time with her isn't a bad idea. Unless your friends are all like you.
2006-07-09 20:01:17 · answer #8 · answered by nomad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Companionship, intelligent conversation, do what she likes to do, listen to her when she talks, dont talk about yourself all the time. Cooking is good, foot massage, flowers, leave her a note with something sweet written on it, or buy a card with something written in it if you cant think of anything to write.
2006-07-10 08:17:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendship.... sex is great... but a best friend.. and sex is even better. At least if the sex part ever ends... you didn't waste all that time.. you still end up with a friend.
2006-07-01 17:57:57 · answer #10 · answered by Brooklyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋