I feel really bad, like I'm crying inside, and I want to hurt myself, and I don't want to be alone but there's no one else home, and, I don't know, I guess I just really need a hug right now.
2006-07-01 17:42:15 · 55 answers · asked by Ellie 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Do your parents leave you by yourself for long periods of time?
I know how depressing it can be knowing that you don't have one single person in the word which can help you in a time of need. I think you need to get out more with people your own age and live life a little bit. I am almost sure that someone out there is willing to give you a hug. Probably even some on this website would be willing to give you a hug. I think what you really need is a close friend or someone you can trust to talk about your problems. If you keep to much to yourself, a burden emerges that is to heavy to carry.
2006-07-01 18:00:51 · answer #1 · answered by Johnny D 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Sweetie! Here's a hug for you. Now do you a favor.
Take this time that you are alone and get something to write on all the things you love about you.
You've fought and won battles before. You have so many great qualities that you've talked yourself out of allowing yourself to love or someone has discouraged you.
Do this and BE THE LOVE YOU SEEK.
The reason I know is because I'm off work on disability for 3 weeks for the same reasons. I found my help this time off by every day I take a notebook outside, sit on the porch swing, listen to the wind chimes and write myself love letters and thank you letters. Please try right now while you are alone and don't have to be embarrassed.
Be The Love You Seek!!!!! Best of everything to you!
2006-07-15 16:46:10 · answer #2 · answered by Cookie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it might not help that much, but I understand how you feel because I've been there and I know it's horrible. So while I can't hug you physically, please believe me that the thought is there and that I truly wish you some comfort and hope you feel a little better soon.
This is easier said than done, I know, but try and keep yourself occupied inhalf hour slots, one step at a time, and congratulate yourself for every slot you manage without hurting yourself. Cry if you need to, it can help believe it or not because chemicals are released into the brain that help to calm you.
I don't know where you live, but even if you aren't in the UK, visit the Samaritans website (www.samaritans.org) and maybe send them an email talking about how you're feeling?
They'll get back to you quickly and it might just help get you through this.
2006-07-01 21:11:35 · answer #3 · answered by justasiam29 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, if you are lonely, of course you can have a hug. But that picture is not the right kind of picture to put on the internet and I think maybe you know what I mean. Why don't you try to put your question in another form and use another picture or better yet, no picture at all. None of us want anything to happen to you and like some of the others have said there of perverts out there who can figure out how to locate you-that picture gives them the wrong idea, sweetheart. You take care, we all care, and there are many, many arms around you right now. Just change the picture please.
2006-07-01 20:30:02 · answer #4 · answered by pat l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for a start what is a 13 year old doing on-line at all sorts of hours?
2. Why are you not being supervised?
3. You have to be 18 or over to be able to place a photo as an Avatar.
4. Why is there a 'Mature' over 18's only on your 360.
(Which I haven't viewed)
And some of your other questions?
-What's your favourite euphemism for penis?
-Anyone want to email me?
I don't believe you're who you say you are.
There are hundreds of perverts on this forum pretending to be young girls.
P.S.
I agree with R C.
2006-07-01 20:03:56 · answer #5 · answered by Norman Bates 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ellie, you want to live. Think of all the wonderful things you have to look forward to.Many, many hugs. We all love you, and some of us have been where you are right now.
If things get really tough, call a crisis hot line .A real person will talk to you and get you help if you need it.
Don't be afraid, we're all here for you. You will be alright,you have too many people pulling for you!!
2006-07-15 16:37:20 · answer #6 · answered by hollyltstarfleet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because of your situation, you feel unloved, that your parents want you out of the way. Plus you are at an age where your hormones are racing.
Just sit back, see the good things you have going for you, take part in as many activities at school as you can & make friends. You problems will pass, just try to stay positive!
2006-07-08 06:36:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice pic! Are you wanting perverts to contact you? Are you a cop? What are you thinking to post a pic? Are you wanting e mail addresses to spam? Call life line if you have a problem! The net is great as long as you think before you act! Some people are evil & you might be one of them. I might be or the next person. Be Safe! Seek local help.
2006-07-01 18:35:47 · answer #8 · answered by R. C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a wonderful person! Tell the person crying inside to take a hike! Never hurt yourself.If you feel that bad call a friend or relitive and just talk. Or just crawl into your bed and tell yourself you are beautiful, wonderful, and you can do whatever you want! Just DONT HURT YOURSELF!!!!!
2006-07-01 17:57:35 · answer #9 · answered by amazinlyawsomx3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not sure you are what you say you are but if you are a 13 yr old girl You should be careful what you are asking complete stangers for you, there are a lot of nasty sick people out there who contact young girls for there own sexual gratifacation, please be safe on line remove your pic and call your parents as their the best people to ask for a hug .
2006-07-02 12:58:05 · answer #10 · answered by Grizley Bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋