Have you ever liked someone but were to afriad to tell them, how did you deal w/ it?

Question

I really like this guy but I don't know how to tell him. Can you give me some advice. Thanks

Answer 1

Yes, I did nothing, I waited for him to approach and he never did. I regret it now. I think I should have done something. I don't think ou should tell him explicitly just act interested, if he gets the message then good for you and if he didn't that means he has no feelings for you.

Answer 2

If you really like him why would you be afraid to tell him so. It is not like he is going to beat you up or have you arrested if you tell him of your fondness. If you do not tell him how will he know that you have a fancy for him more than just friends. Will your fear let some one that you like turn and walk away. You will have no one to blame but yourself. If you like him enough and want him enough you will tell him. The hardest part is getting his attention and when you have it tell him you like him more than just friends and if you want tell him why. He might be afraid of your approach but he has the advantage of being on the spot already cause as soon as you tell him, look at him, adore him, look into his eyes and wait as the response has to come from him and the three seconds that it took you to tell him how you feel has put where you were right in front of him. Three seconds, what on earth is there to be afraid of? Balance that with the good things and fun times and feelings that go along with being with him and there is only those three seconds standing between you. Like Nike says, "Just do it". You will have a host of new feelings when you do and the best is your self esteem reaching new hights while waiting for him to say, " I really like you too". Maybe that is what you are afraid of? God bless you and good luck.

Answer 3

OMG thats happening 2 me right know. i like this guy, but him and me r kinda friends and it would really weird out r friendship. also this other girl likes him so i don't want 2 interphere. mabey u should write him a letter telling how u feel? i'm thinking of just slowly starting 2 flirt with him. but if ur not in high school u really don't need one. if u like alot just try talking 2 him. I think i will try it tomorrow. once u talk 2 him (if u do) tell it under details. i can't wait 2 here about it! :)

Answer 4

You can always be smiling and sweet around him, give him compliments when deserved, then just look at him and tell him that you like him or you wish there were more guys like him. I am sure you can think of something but like someone else suggested, don't wait too long or someone else with a spinal cord will be telling him how they feel and then you will be sitting in the shadows wishing you were her.

Answer 5

Exactly don't wait! Here let me give you a scenario. Say you met this guy...and you and him were walking down the street hand and hand. Sounds normal, but your relationship is rocky and you don't think your going to stay. If you saw your "soul mate" walking down the same street what would be the chances you would talk to him? Not very likely because you were with the guy you couldn't get rid of. Point is: If you miss your opportunity it may be gone forever! Don't miss your opportunity!

Answer 6

I liked my Best Friend. I told him I liked someone and he keppt bugging me he wanted to know who it was. I was so afraid to tell him. I finally told him and then two weeks later he started dating this gurl and stopped talking to me in public. Not all guys act like actually I think very few guys act like this. But my Best Friend was a jerk. Just tell the guy you like him I am sure he will respong in a polite way. It will drive you crazy if you don't do anything, so make a move before he is gone.

Answer 7

Yes, I really liked this guy, but was not sure how to tell him. One of his best friends was also a good friend of mine so I asked him to just drop some subtle questions about me to the guy, like so do you think she's cute, would you ever date her, and like that. It turned out that he really liked me too, but was also afraid to ask me out, weird huh. Well we dated for a while, but it just didn't work out, but at least we tried. My advice, let him know how you feel, what have you got to lose?

Answer 8

Tell him. That's how you feel better.

Practice, pre-live the event with all outcomes and most importantly realise that not speaking how you feel is worse than speaking it and being rejected. If you don't take a chance to find happiness, you will dwell is a safe but lonely place without ever truly having it.

Answer 9

If they turn you down, then they turn you down the world will not come to an end. If they act like a jerk then you know what kind of person they really are. But who know what can happen, if you you do not say anything. Most people are flattered that a person has a crush on them, I know I like to know. I promise you will survive, how you handle it is up to you if rejection happens.

Answer 10

i think everyone has liked someone and has been afraid of how to tell them. Thats happened to be so many times. But i figure the best way to do it.. is just to be very straight forward. some people hate that, but frankly i dont care. whats the use of playing this long stupid guessing game when you can just straight up say "i like you."? well. thats what i do. whenever im afraid of telling a guy i like him... i face my fears.. and say "I like you.", i mean whats the worst that can happen?? other than rejection. haha. but everyone needs a little rejection in their lives, dont they?