i have a bf..and we have only been goin out for 3 weeks..how can i keep this relationship goin??? should we start early on .."u know what"? or r there better things that i can do?
2006-07-01 17:20:42 · 9 answers · asked by teeny* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Giving in prematurely will show he doesn't have to respect you, and that you do not respect yourself. I understand the temptation is there, but it is important to make sure this guy is going to stick around for the long term. He might not be as good as he first appears and by giving in early, you will be taken advantage of and left behind if he is bad. And if he was good in heart, he would not push you to that boundary. Let it come naturally, keep the mutual respect and discover all you can before giving in. It will make it so much more worthwhile.
2006-07-01 17:25:48 · answer #1 · answered by solpredator 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First off is the relationship going good? If there aren't any problems don't fix it. In regards to the starting early I personally would say no. There are tons of things to do with your partner that don't involve relations. Go for a walk, take in common interests, talk about each other, etc. If you and your partner are serious about each other then there is nothing stopping what and when you can do.
Have fun enjoy life!
Hope this helps
Matt
2006-07-02 00:25:55 · answer #2 · answered by MastaP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
plz!!! if you really want to keep him keep your legs SHUT!!! guys respect girls that respect themselves, my first waited 7 months and some boys say that's long I'm like no it's not, but I say the limit is 3 months, my limit is six, if you cant keep him w/out sex, then he isn't worth it!!!
2006-07-02 00:24:22 · answer #3 · answered by Jazzy M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait.
If anything all guys like a challenge, whether they say it or not.
The better the chase, the longer you guys will last.
2006-07-02 00:23:20 · answer #4 · answered by Analina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good relationships start within you. perhaps realizing that your happiness does not require any1 but yourself.don't depend on any1 or anything for your happiness. true love and joy first come within you. you can then love truly and unconditionally.
2006-07-02 00:25:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
say u love him every single day.... i read that from a book, it says, how 2 get closer 2 ur family....
2006-07-02 00:28:04 · answer #6 · answered by balq1s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don,t Ignore her and give prefrece when it require.
2006-07-02 00:25:21 · answer #7 · answered by linda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U are not sure about anything yet so WAIT ....... There is no rush!
Good luck
2006-07-02 00:24:07 · answer #8 · answered by hhcita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that "u know wat" is inevitable, it will happen sometime but dont let it become d only reason to carry on a relationship
discover ur guy some more,get into his life not PANTS
2006-07-02 00:24:31 · answer #9 · answered by frost fire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋