and now i am in the process of starting a relationship with one of them and i really like the guy but my ex keeps calling me on my 2 way and saying things like i'm a nasty w.hore and all types of stuff like that now he left me why is he doing this to me and how can i get him to leave me be i am very happy with my new man and want the ex outta my life completely i have never been more happy how can i ditch this ol bag of sh.it from my past?
2006-07-01 17:03:28 · 15 answers · asked by loveme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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You go girl! I'm proud of you that you are over this emotional abuser.
He doesn't want you, but he doesn't want anyone else to have you either.
He is making efforts to belittle you and make you uncomfortable, and hurt you...
and he hopes that will make himself feel better somehow in his twisted mind.
The way to deal with abusive's is to be as strong or stronger than him. He won't pick on someone unless he perceives them to be weak. Likely he used to give you a fit.
If you project strength in your attitude, then he'll go away.
...so here is where you have some fun with this.
He's calling you nasty names.
Don't you do that...you want to come off as ABOVE him.
When he calls you names notice he's angry...you stay calm. Reply in a patronizing way, like you would a nut in a hospital...say "Now that you got that out, do you feel better now? I'll wait until you get it all out. You forgot $lut and a$$hole...go ahead and say them, I'll wait. But after that, I have my boyfriend here, and we were in the middle of handcuffing!!! hee hee hee."
You get my drift. Just play with it, and he'll see he's not upsetting you...the only one he'll be aggitating is himself...and he'll stop.
stw
2006-07-01 17:20:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
Yeah you kinda have been given the assumption, staring / making eye touch with a woman would not propose the guy likes her. In MY attitude, it may mean 3 issues: a million. the guy is mushy conversing to the lady, and is mushy together with her presence around (basically friends). I a brilliant number of friends that are ladies and that i continually make eye touch when I refer to them, this is basically casual u kno? 2. the guy desires to fulfill the lady / is involved in her (acquaintance). the two that, or... the lady is strange-looking or grotesque lol. yet nonetheless, men would not stare at a woman that long if she's like that. 3. the guy likes the lady. He would not understand a thank you to particular his emotions, yet desires he ought to discover a thank you to accomplish that. i could inform you right this moment up a thank you to tell which a style of perspectives does a guy mean whilst he makes eye touch or stares, yet i do no longer think of i will. you need to basically.. kinda experience it. reliable luck, you would be greater conscious of it alongside the way haha. wish this helped ;)
2016-11-01 01:54:35 · answer #2 · answered by mcthay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason he is saying those things to you on your 2 way calling because he misses you. Oh I have this way for a matter of fact that will get him away from you at any distance you want. You should get a restraning order. If he goes within your restraning order he will go to jail. Or if he even calls you he will go to jail or you could even make him leave the state
2006-07-01 17:14:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Track him down walking in a parking lot, drive up behind him and hit him with a shovel, knocking him cold. Put him in the trunk. Mask him and take him somewhere to torture him. Since you don't want to involve others, have your new boyfriend record this..."Stop messing with you ex girlfriend, capiche? Or you lose the crank, got it?" Then pull out one fingernail with pliers and let him go.
He don't call you again. Guaranteed.
2006-07-01 17:12:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing I would do is change the settings on your two way so that he cant reach you on it. The second thing to do is just ignore him and let your new friend to ignore him too! Eventually he will leave you alone, and if he doesn't, put a restraining order against him.
2006-07-01 17:10:01 · answer #5 · answered by Chuck H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to tell him first of all and be firm about this.
aslo change ur number or your cell number etc.
erase him from your life.
ignore him, dont talk to him and dont even give him the chance. hang up on him, or dont answer to him.
aslo u can go to the police if u feel he is harrasing you, or u feel threatned or scared by his behaviour, its not right and its against the law, look at getting a avo from the law courts.
2006-07-01 17:07:17 · answer #6 · answered by babygal7772002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remind him that he is the one that left you for someone else and you dont wanna talk to him anymore and stop calling or youll file a warrant for harrasment(just as a threat or u could really go through with it)
2006-07-01 17:10:57 · answer #7 · answered by USMC LCpl Wife & Mommy 2 Be! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
change UR cell number (go to your operator) and warn UR new man and/or some of your Big masculine friends that the ex is causing some troubles....be safe, I wish U luck :)
2006-07-01 17:09:09 · answer #8 · answered by Celebriel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try changing your number, and just cut yourself off from him completely, or if you have a big brother, do like I did and have your bro kick his *ss LMAO
2006-07-01 17:10:17 · answer #9 · answered by jensarquist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't answer your phone, change your number or call your provider and have them block his number. He'll get tired of it, if he doesn't, then call the police and tell them he's harassing you, they'll get him to stop!!
2006-07-01 17:07:49 · answer #10 · answered by angib18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋