i really like my friend... but how do i tell him, cause im scared that hes not even going to talk to me anymore and tell s me that he dont like me that way! should i just keep it in and not say anything... or spill it?? help please
2006-07-01 17:00:22 · 11 answers · asked by i_luv_benji04 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Life's to short to not tell people how you feel about them. If he doesn't like you oh well. At least you won't spend the rest of your life wondering.
2006-07-01 17:04:33 · answer #1 · answered by rogue chedder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww....this is the story of my life! I think that you should be brave and tell him. I still regret it until this day because I never told my best guy friend how I felt about him. Even if he doesn't feel the same way, you took a chance on love and karma never forgets things like that! Good luck
P.S- Watch the movie " My best friend's wedding" ! It is so darn insightful!
2006-07-02 00:04:36 · answer #2 · answered by simpleplan0013 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't tell him, you will always live with the pain of what might have been, and, if/when he does find somebody else, the pain of not making the move when you had the chance will eat at you for the rest of your life.
Tell him. Even if he does say no, and breaks it off, at least you will know you tried, and be able to allow yourself time to heal and move on. By doing what your doing now, you will just be endlessly torturing yourself.
2006-07-02 00:05:19 · answer #3 · answered by rhino 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spill it out and if he doesnt like u back continue to still be his friend but he likes u he wouldnt be ya friend for nothing
2006-07-02 00:04:07 · answer #4 · answered by Young boi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys are friends then it shouldn't matter the outcome.
But, I would let him onto it a little bit. Guys kind of revel in the thought of girls liking them. But again, it's up to you. Do what you think is best.
:) Best of luck.
2006-07-02 00:04:55 · answer #5 · answered by Nate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't necissarily HAVE to tell him. show him that u like him a lot. flirt occasionally and talk 2 him a lot. if u tell him stuff no 1 else knows, then it will make him feel special, like u like him enuf 2 tell him a secret that no1 else knows.
2006-07-02 00:04:20 · answer #6 · answered by Tess Tranquillity™ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say something cause he might have feelings for u but make sure u wear sum nice when u tell him and LOOK NICE okay!
2006-07-02 00:02:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it slow not to fast you don't want to keep it in because you could be missing out on alot if you hold out and he ends up being that one guy for you
2006-07-02 00:03:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if yall are really good friends, im sure you can make it through that and remain friends.
remembrer,the situation is only as awkward as you make it...
2006-07-02 00:03:38 · answer #9 · answered by brini14@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it slow
2006-07-02 00:01:51 · answer #10 · answered by GirlyGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋