2006-07-01 16:51:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes, marriage is simply a social contract between you and your wife, not the goal of every love relationship. The 2 are almost not related, just the fact that it's easier to have a marriage with someone you love, than someone that annoys the heck out of you, so you marry the one you love.
Historically, people used marriage simply to unite 2 family to gain more power and wealth, the married couple were simply forced to live together and bear a child of both families. No love there...
But, i think the opposite is true too, you could perfectly be in love and live together with someone without having to marry the person and still have a great relation.
That is... if the other person thinks that way too lol
2006-07-01 17:01:08 · answer #1 · answered by Cool 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes you can fall in love with someone your not going to marry. You can not control your heart and who you fall in love with
2006-07-02 01:03:26 · answer #2 · answered by melthule 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not really. The question is why wouldn't you marry them. If u truly love them then you would want to marry and be with them. Love is through thick and thin. For better or for worse. If u wouldn't marry them then that means that u don't truly love them. It could be a short infatuation that might end soon. Or maybe U guys are really just best or good friends. Bottom line if your skeptical then it might not be the real thing. Hope that helps.
2006-07-02 00:00:05 · answer #3 · answered by Ce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Happens all the time. Turns out the guys I fell in love with became priests. The guy I fell in love with and married was going to be a priest too. Never sorry I allowed myself to fall in love with anyone.
2006-07-01 23:54:44 · answer #4 · answered by knittinmama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you fall in love with who you fall in love with, so the answer is a yes, but I wouldnt reccommend marrying someone your not in love with. You'll never be happy and you'll always be living a lie. Wait until you are in love then make that decision.
2006-07-01 23:55:35 · answer #5 · answered by ttti 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U can fall in love with anybody who u want
2006-07-01 23:54:30 · answer #6 · answered by Young boi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. Love happens much more than marriage does.
2006-07-01 23:54:54 · answer #7 · answered by TealHaze 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think so, cus i fell in love lotsa times before i fell in the love with the man i ended up marrying...........i still love my ex boyfriends tho, im just not IN love with them..
2006-07-01 23:55:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. And you have no control over it. Isn't love grand?
2006-07-04 02:49:08 · answer #9 · answered by slipstreamer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i believe that will happen a lot. don't worry
2006-07-01 23:55:58 · answer #10 · answered by breeanna =) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋