at 10:50 my bf calls me to tell me he is at walmart and will call me when he gets home. i never hear from him till 4:30pm the next day. this is so unlike him so i figure something came up since he did have a wedding to attend. but then i find out he was on the phone with his ex..talking enough for her to leave him an e-mail using the words "baby" & "love you once again" . . .should i deal with this **** even if he tells me it means nothing. i know she wants it to get to me, but the truth is ....it is!!!
2006-07-01 15:51:43 · 19 answers · asked by confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i hacked into his e-mail without him knowing because i suspected something was going on. . .and sure enough they have been talking...but the message she left him was out in the open on a blog!!...she wanted me to see it. . .
2006-07-01 16:09:20 · update #1
oh and i haven't talked to him yet . . .
2006-07-01 16:09:35 · update #2
Leave him now before he has the chance to cheat on you (if he hasn't already)!
2006-07-01 15:54:58 · answer #1 · answered by bluskygreengrass 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to your bf and get to the bottom of this. Really make him tell you whats going on. And if you don't believe him for any reason, break up with him and forgot about him.
He sounds like a jerk to me, but talk to him and see.
2006-07-01 22:55:56 · answer #2 · answered by Joe S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he tell you all this up front, or did you find out some other way? Was he trying to cover it up? These are all important factors. If he was up front, then maybe you can work it out. Otherwise, bye bye baby.
2006-07-01 23:05:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut your losses honey, it's not worth it. If you stay you'll wind up looking like more of a fool than you do now.
2006-07-01 22:55:16 · answer #4 · answered by mandie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He treats you that way b/c he knows you are always there waiting for him. He is not worth your time. Let him be someone eles's problem.
2006-07-01 22:56:02 · answer #5 · answered by cici 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't fall into her trap... bring out all the tricks in your bag to make your bf totally yours, heart and soul.... get a CCCrrrrrushing victory!
2006-07-01 22:56:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would dump, don't give him the chance to cheat or dump you. IF she wrote that then you kno somethin is goin on.
2006-07-01 22:57:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like something is going on between the two....
2006-07-01 22:55:51 · answer #8 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be saying buh bye!!! Get rid of him before it gets worse!!
2006-07-01 22:55:13 · answer #9 · answered by MNM0103 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to cut his ties to her because it is affecting your relationship.
2006-07-01 22:58:01 · answer #10 · answered by sshazzam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋