like for example its always a girls night out and the boyfriends are never there or viseversa,do you trust your girl/boy friend that much to always go out to a club with out you?
2006-07-01 15:22:58 · 14 answers · asked by gc gurlie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should trust your bf/gf. a healthy relationship allows for you to be able to go out with your friends where ever you want to go. and visaversa. me and my boyfriend go once a week out with our friends with out each other. its so we can spend some time with our friends. its important to keep your relationship with your family and friends because they were there before your relationship and if something should horribly go wrong they will be there after. plus if you are in a good relationship you will not get the urge to cheat. just set the rules on like dancing and talking and what is OK and not OK and stick to them. everything will be fine.
2006-07-01 15:28:10 · answer #1 · answered by danielle s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes its fine as long as both of you are normal and dont stay out till 4am and not be considerate of each other and get completely drunk and irresponsible. If you have a partner that does drink too much then I would avoid the clubs scence if you can. But if its a harmless once in a while I dont think you should ever stop some one from going somewhere
2006-07-01 22:27:21 · answer #2 · answered by Glittergirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there's any right or wrong answer to this one. It's all about the comfort level of the spouse/significant other at home. My husband is, this instant, out at a country dance bar; without me, obviously. He's with his best friend, and his best friend flirts with everthing that wears a skirt. I trust my husband to tastefully rebuff any woman that comes his way, and he knows I don't mind if he two-steps with the occassional female. We have agreed limits, he tells me what time he expects to be home, and I've never had a reason to worry about him, so far. It helps that he doesn't do this every weekend, but only every once in a while; on average, about once every 6 mos or so.
2006-07-01 22:28:12 · answer #3 · answered by b30954 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same situation with my x. It always bugged me that she would leave me home while she went out. I went one time with my friend and she was out grinding on another guy. Some girls I meet at clubs wont do that but some do. It all depends on the trust in ur relationship. If she does it all the time and comes home drunk then I wouldnt like it.
2006-07-01 22:27:38 · answer #4 · answered by Lookinstr8over 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you want to destroy the relationship.
It's a trust issue.
In a relationship, there are 3 lives. There is your life, your lover's life, and the life that you share together.
Let your love have his life, insist that you have your own life, and enjoy the times that you spend and the activities that you share together.
If you've been given a reason not to trust, that's different.
2006-07-01 22:27:27 · answer #5 · answered by bbcranks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I woud allow my boyfriend to go to clubs with out me, its all about trust and respect to each other
2006-07-01 22:26:22 · answer #6 · answered by WickeD_AngeL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every relationship is founded on trust. If you believe your bf/gf to be and honest person there is no reason for worry.
2006-07-01 22:26:52 · answer #7 · answered by kristycordeaux 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no , sometimes your girlfriend/boyfriend needs some space no trust no relationship you cannot be in a relationship with someone you don't trust. katie
2006-07-01 22:33:53 · answer #8 · answered by katie b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES I WOULD TRUST HER BECAUSE, IT SHE WANTED TO CHEAT SHE WOULD. AND I CANT STOP HER. U HAVE TO UNDERSTAND ONE THING, U CANT STOP SOMEONE FROM DOING WHAT THEY REALLY WANT TO DO ANYWAY.
2006-07-01 22:26:03 · answer #9 · answered by oaklandkc1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My thought on this is...
He/She must stop at the moment he fulfill his needs...
2006-07-01 22:26:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋