ok theres this guy whos friendly with everyone and really nice to almost all girls
and I think hes really nice funny and awesome
and he's been talking to me A LOT more than other girls
but i dont know if hes just being friendly or actually likes me
any advice about what i can do or anything about this??
2006-07-01 14:28:38 · 21 answers · asked by whatever21 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
like hes been hanging around me a lot...
BUT theres this other guy that i have to get a ride with because hes a family friend
i dont kno but i think the guy i like thinks that i like the family guy friend which i dont
2006-07-01 14:30:12 · update #1
Just keep being yourself. If he seems shy you can even ask him out, but not on a date. Make it something like dinner or bowling or something you like to do and think he will also. Then take it from there and see if he will ask you out next time.
P.S. do not, I repeat, DO NOT ask him to dinner with your family. That is so stupid. He'll run like hell.
2006-07-01 14:33:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out. Don't wait for him to do something, especially if you think that the family friend is the reason he doesn't take his own step. Take your own step. It doesn't have to be drastic, like a movie, but you can ask him home with you sometime. And if he asks about the family friend, just say, "Who? Oh, he's just a friend of the family. He's my ride home." Maybe even suggest that your friendly guy take over, if he has his own car.
If you're not comfortable asking him out, then bring up your ride in conversation. For instance, if you two are ever talking out by the curb while you're waiting for your ride, then when your ride pulls up, tell him you have to go because your ride is here, and he's probably in a hurry to get home to... a girlfriend, if has one. Or don't call him a "ride", but say your dad's friend is here.
2006-07-01 14:35:55 · answer #2 · answered by b30954 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to sound mean, but many girls think the guy likes her because he hangs around her "more than the other girls" and such. It's middle school drama, and it's ridiculous. If he really liked you, you wouldn't be asking for advice because you'd definitely know. I know it sounds harsh, but I've dealt with this one friend my entire life who always thought all the guys liked her when they were just being nice.
Just continue being nice, and maybe something will happen. Everything relationship wise is better unplanned and unknown. (unless the guy is creepy, then it's better to know if he likes you so you can stay away)
2006-07-01 14:35:04 · answer #3 · answered by Katie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK ... the simple solution
First ... just tell him that you have a question. Tell him that it
appears to you that he spends more time talking to you than
other girls. Ask him if you're correct or mistaken.
If he says you're correct .. then just ask if it's because he has a
special interest in you or if it's just because he values you as a
friend.
If he says you are incorrect .. just say thanks ... and that you
didn't want to be mistaken and read something into a situation
that wasn't there.
Either way .. you will learn the truth
2006-07-01 16:15:01 · answer #4 · answered by Consultant 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. Don't pressure him. Let him take the initiative. Then you know if HE wants to be more than friends. You can make it clear through casual conversation that the family guy friend is just a friend. He will also see it in your actions, if he is really interested in you.
2006-07-01 14:33:41 · answer #5 · answered by supernova 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him. You've goten nothing to lose. He'll still be your friend & every thing. But dont do it head on. Start a conversation, ask him a few questions before you ask him that, and then at least 2 more after that one.
2006-07-01 14:32:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him- ..or be slick n talk to the guy..about how many people think u like the family friend- n be like i don't like him...n stuff- ooor u can get someone 2 tell him-- i've done this..i'll be like to my friend..pretend u can't keep secrets and go tell the guy i like..that i like him n tell him not to tell anyone.. cuz i'll murder u- lol so the guy doesn't think i actually told her to tell him
2006-07-01 14:35:20 · answer #7 · answered by 1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him over for dinner. If your family does not have dinner together in the evenings then you could just tell him how you feel and see what goes from there.
2006-07-01 14:31:29 · answer #8 · answered by angie_adie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt hurt you if u ask. just a simple "what r u doin tonight? u wanna do sumthing" will do da trick. if hes a nice guy he will let alil more out on da date. da arm around you is a notch up. it never hurts to see. and if he wanna just be friends then u know
2006-07-01 14:33:17 · answer #9 · answered by M.P. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u feel comfortable around him then ask him how he feels about u and if ur ever gonna b nething or jus keep flirtin and havin a good time cuz the other girls r prolly jealous and u know thats always fun lol
2006-07-01 14:33:29 · answer #10 · answered by kamy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋