i've been sleeping with this guy for months, nothing serious, a no strings attached type of thing. the problem is that now i'm seeng someone. i keep telling myself i'm not gonna sleep with this other guy, but everytime he's around i just cant help myself. what should i do?
2006-07-01 14:25:21 · 18 answers · asked by jenn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sit back and think is it really no strings because if you cant help yourself then some strings are there..I have the same type of arrangment and I can be around him without loosin control (and he is damn good)..So you need to ask yourself is this relationship you have started worth stopping your side thing and if it is then stop cold turkey tell him its over and if you cant bring yourself to stop then there are strings and maybe you should see what becomes of it...Good Luck hun I hope all turns out well for you and that you find happiness
2006-07-01 14:34:17 · answer #1 · answered by shell b 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is tricky, and a bit of deft juggling is called for......
If you enjoy sex with the first guy and don't want to stop, then why not continue??
And what are your feelings about the guy you are seeing? Do you love him? Do you want to marry him?
If you have answered 'Yes' to EITHER of the above two questions (2nd para), then your comnmitment goes to the second guy.
Now, does this guy you're seeing have the same feeling about you?
In that case, take a commitment from him for marriage, and ask him when he will marry you?
If all goes well, i.e. both of you want tro marry each other, then an early/quick marriage will help you solve the problem of the first guy!!
2006-07-01 21:51:16 · answer #2 · answered by Sidhart1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as the other guy doesn't mind the new boyfriend. From a mans view it can be flattering. If you keep coming back to me for sex then the other guy fulfills you emotionally and I do sexually. To a man it is more important to be good in bed. If you could just clone the two together you would have the perfect man. The other guy probably has more than just you as well. It is a two way street.
2006-07-01 21:35:10 · answer #3 · answered by obeydapharoah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Decide which one of them you want in your life more and cut the other one off. Besides, its just wrong to be seeing one person and sleeping with the other. Good Luck.
2006-07-01 21:33:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stop. If it means not being around the other guy, don't be around him. If you can be around the other guy, just tell him no and keep telling him no.
2006-07-01 21:28:55 · answer #5 · answered by Rob K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what stops u having feelings for the guy u just have sex with and are u having sex with this guy u started seeing and if so are u still having sex with this other guy as the new guy doesnt make u feel something
2006-07-01 21:30:04 · answer #6 · answered by ozcall2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your legd closed, because if the other guy finds out then you will be considered a whore.
2006-07-01 21:27:45 · answer #7 · answered by They Love ME......... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just enjoy it...what the new guy doesn't know won't hurt him...or tell him about your relationship with your "bed buddy"...he might actually understand...wouldn't it be cool if you could sleep with both of them separately or even a threesome?
2006-07-01 21:49:31 · answer #8 · answered by Bryan W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he is around run the other direction and call and tell him you dont want to see him anymore and then dont call or talk to him again.
2006-07-01 21:29:12 · answer #9 · answered by cats3inhouse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be around that guy anymore. just basically cut him out of your life, its as simple as that.
2006-07-01 21:27:40 · answer #10 · answered by neverneverland 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋