My well I really can't call her girlfriend I like a very a lot but there is no way to get her to be with me more often than whenever she comes over or whenever she wants. So i could be waiting three days in the middle of the night whenever means whenever and if I give her any slack about it she is quickly gone from me which tears me up. Any suggestions?
2006-07-01 13:55:24 · 15 answers · asked by Brettski 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
STALKER!!!!! Be normal and wait until she comes to see you, or let her go. No more talk of tying her down.
2006-07-01 13:58:47 · answer #1 · answered by Blunt Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't leave her, tell her the ruth that how you feel and keep Ur love, remember continuity is the key of success in love, If U will keep Ur love with someone who hates U even that person will come to U ( She is far better, cause atleast she comes to U)
She might want a long run realtion with U?
2006-07-01 21:10:33 · answer #2 · answered by tariq o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give the girl her space. Let her be who she is. and enjoy the time you do spend with her, she might be affraid of emotional attachment, or she may have other types of issues that won't allow her to form certain kinds of bonds with people. also if you care about her don't give her the slack you usually give just kiss her goodnight and say see ya later. or see ya next time, something like that.
2006-07-01 21:07:22 · answer #3 · answered by lizzy_jones2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must not have the connection that you are hoping for with this person. Don't keep waiting. Move on. You sound like a nice person. Good Luck.
2006-07-01 20:59:44 · answer #4 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either chill out and accept it or move on, what can you do? You can't make someone want to be with you. I happen to be like ur friend, I'm a free bird and NO ONE will ever put me in a cage again. Good luck to you!
2006-07-01 21:00:35 · answer #5 · answered by ooolala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone better...she's not worth your time...stop trying to tie down someone who doesn't want to be...find someone either like you or someone better than her that you can connect with and not be so lonely...especially since she's not your girlfriends...its hard to let go of people you love...but you have to sit back and realize when enough is enough
2006-07-01 20:59:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't like you or want to be your girlfriend or she would be around all the time. If a girl likes you she wants to be around you ALL THE TIME. Get the hint and move on.
2006-07-01 21:03:08 · answer #7 · answered by all_304 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please!! Move on - this girl sounds like she's no where near ready to settle down. Don't allow yourself to be used in that manor. You sound like a great guy - find someone who is looking to settle down like yourself. Don't waste your time with her - you'll just end up with a broken heart and low self esteem.
2006-07-01 20:58:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on to one who will.
2006-07-01 20:57:19 · answer #9 · answered by cheeky chic 379 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have a basement or a root cellar... just dig a hole and keep her down there...
2006-07-01 20:57:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋