its been 4 years. He has no time for me. I love him, that is why I stay. Im 27... I feel like there is someone out there that will make time for me.. Is this selfish? Am I making a mistake?
2006-07-01 13:54:17 · 16 answers · asked by BeezKneez 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It just hurts.. this is a hard choice. Im afrain I'll feel like crap in a week and regret it.. and then have to go crawling back like an idiot.. and then he knew I would do that all along.
2006-07-01 15:03:34 · update #1
Don't waste your time on somebody who never spent time on you
MOVE ON,if you need true love
2006-07-01 14:09:22 · answer #1 · answered by Rocky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You are making a mistake by staying in a relationship that is not Happy. Find someone who you can enjoy and respect. If you give it back you might have found someone you can trust to be kind. Don't be selfish...be smart.
2006-07-01 14:01:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not selfish. If you want someone that will spend time with you, then go find someone that will. It already sounds like you know what you need to do, there is no mistake is trying to get what you want.
2006-07-01 13:57:54 · answer #3 · answered by Rob K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u shud talk to him about it and tell him u dont think he's making enuf time for u!! if he makes a change ull know in the long run u were glad u didnt break it off with him but if he doesnt do anything about it, there are plentty of men out there for u!! but i dont think its selfish its his fault!
2006-07-01 13:59:08 · answer #4 · answered by mztraye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You want someone who will appreciate you and let you know that they care about you. I would talk to him about this so he knows. He should give you attention, even if its once a week. A women wants to feel special. THere is nothin wrong with that.
2006-07-01 14:01:55 · answer #5 · answered by 12 Gauge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you aren't being selfish. If you really think there is someone out there who will appreciate you more, then it's ok Just tell him that you need someone that will spend time with you. He will understand.
2006-07-01 13:59:23 · answer #6 · answered by Fallen Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not selfish if your not happy and he's not meeting your needs get rid of him and move on with your life.
Don't stay if he's not showing you love or affection or time.
2006-07-01 14:01:39 · answer #7 · answered by markm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it does take alot to keep a good relationship it doesnt just stay wonderful on its own. but if you feel that you cant be in a relationship dont stay in it. sit him down and talk to him. you shouldnt be scared of yr partner that you cant talk to him about it
2006-07-01 13:59:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on sista, world is full of eligible men who would def make the time for u, make him crawl back to u, be strong
2006-07-01 14:04:49 · answer #9 · answered by ooolala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not selfish at all. If you think you guys relationship isn't going anywhere, you should split up.
2006-07-01 14:02:03 · answer #10 · answered by Poppi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋