My bf and I butt heads on everything, he's a ******* pain in the ***, and so annoying to be around, but I miss him when he's gone for even five minutes, and he misses me too, he'll call me and tell me he misses me five minutes after he leaves my house, which is annoying as ****, but I love him......how?
2006-07-01 13:28:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Obviously you don't know what love is.
2006-07-01 13:30:12 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's crazy. You don't love him at all. You just need to go out and find some new friends. If you loved him you would not feel this way about him. It sounds like he is an annoying friends more than a boyfriend. You're confused because it's not real.
2006-07-01 20:32:49 · answer #2 · answered by femme fatale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may both be a little hotheaded, or you may be in a co-dependant relationship. You should read the book "codependant no more" and ask yourself some serious questions. How's your self-worth? Why do you put up with his stuff? How low will you go just to keep a guy around? Are you enough without him?
2006-07-01 20:32:30 · answer #3 · answered by lachichippie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem. But I broke up with him adn realized that I wasnted him bacl. He took me back and all. But then awhle after I went to Jamacia. Being there and not talking to him for a week made me realized how happy i am not talking to him and I met a different guy there and figured I realyl dont nee all that stress. FIND someONe else!
2006-07-01 20:36:21 · answer #4 · answered by Gaga <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys should NOT be together. Sounds like you are just in love with being in love and dont want to be alone. Set each other free to find a real relationship that makes you each happy.
2006-07-01 20:31:40 · answer #5 · answered by LuLuBelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont really know what love is, thats not love. I advise you get a guy that will agree with you on most things, you need a bit of head butting just because it reveals character.
2006-07-01 20:32:14 · answer #6 · answered by Sparky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause love is putting up with the annoying things! that's real life, working through the issues... you know you probably do some things he finds annoying. Good luck.
2006-07-01 20:33:04 · answer #7 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't had the right relationship or you would be gone. You are just desparate to be with somebody, no matter the cost. Grow up and get out.
2006-07-01 20:32:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you still love him? Love is strange, speaks many languages. But do you REALLY love him or just miss him and feel lonely?
2006-07-01 20:32:41 · answer #9 · answered by fiestygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing about love makes sense.
2006-07-01 20:32:30 · answer #10 · answered by Tammy H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't love him, you just can't stand to be alone. You're saying such horrible things about him (pain in the ***????)-you all should not be together.
2006-07-01 20:30:36 · answer #11 · answered by Hot Pants 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋