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Im going to Japan next month, and I am advised that this is the correct etiquette. Can anyone confirm if this is the case?

I have also heard that you should present your card with both hands.

Your help on how important this is would be appreciated.

Thanks

2006-07-01 12:48:31 · 7 answers · asked by Sherlock 6 in Society & Culture Etiquette

brittonsm26: I wasn't seeking a lecture. Im sure you have much to learn of other cultures.

2006-07-01 13:24:13 · update #1

7 answers

You have heard right. Using both hands is a sign of humility and of commitment. Using one hand would signal a petty item being given. Presenting your card facing up is a sign of sincerity and of personal worth. Presenting the card facing down signals lack of confidence and treachery.
Mr. M on Japanese etiquette.

2006-07-01 12:54:40 · answer #1 · answered by Humberto M 6 · 1 0

I have never been to Japan so I hope somebody will help you.

It is the correct etiquette in other countries in Asia and yes with both hands. The same applies with giving and receiving paper money.

Ps: somebody did already :-)

2006-07-01 19:54:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

In the 19th century and beyond... Japan has held on to its historical culture as much as it could given the new generation, who unfortunately are socialists if not in name , surely by deed. Honor is a foreign concept to westerners in that we dispensed of it in our revolutionary war. We tried to revive it in the civil war which led to enormous casualties. The code of the Samurai is still upheld by males in the hierarchy. That code is the basis by which all conduct is measured. Study that and you will succeed in that world.

2006-07-01 20:08:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Present the card face up, with the text facing so the receipient can read it. Present it with both hands and a slight bow.

2006-07-01 19:52:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

If you present me with a card, with two hands, I'm gonna look at you funny. in Japan? Who knows.

My advice is to staple a fortune cookie to it. Then smile and sing, Elvis' "wise men say."

they love that

2006-07-01 23:16:31 · answer #5 · answered by http://fuelthearmy.com 3 · 0 0

Face up with text facing the recipient and with both hands.

2006-07-02 11:37:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Here are some things about etiquette in Japan. Also are some websites to check out.

Appearance

Those who dress according to their status or position impress the Japanese. Dress to impress.

Men should wear dark conservative attire. Business suits are most suitable.

Casual dress is never appropriate in a business setting.

Shoes should be easy to remove, as you will do so often. Slip-ons are the best choice.

Women’s dress should be conservative. Little emphasis should be placed on accessories. They should be minimal.

Women should not wear pants in a business situation. Japanese men tend to find it offensive.

Women should only wear low-heeled shoes to avoid towering over men.

A kimono should be wrapped left over right to do otherwise symbolizes death.

Remember the Japanese phrase "The nail that sticks up gets hit with the hammer" when considering your choices for attire in Japan.

Avoid using large hand gestures, unusual facial expressions and any dramatic movements. The Japanese do not talk with their hands and to do so could distract your host.

Avoid the "OK" sign; in Japan it means money.

Pointing in not acceptable.

Do no blow your nose in public

Personal space is valued. Because the Japanese live in such a densely populated area, they value their personal space.

A smile can have double meaning. It can express either joy or displeasure. Use caution with your facial expressions. They can be easily misunderstood.

The Japanese are not uncomfortable with silence. They use it to their advantage in many situations. Allow your host to sit in silence.


Behavior

The word for toasting is kampai, pronounced 'kahm-pie'. When toasting the glass is never left unfilled. Drinking is an important part of Japanese culture. It is a way to relieve business stress.

Never pour a drink yourself; always allow someone else to do it for you.

Most business entertaining is done in restaurants or bars after business hours. Often in karaoke or "hostess bars." Businesswomen should not attend "hostess bars."

Let the host order the meal and pay. Business may be discussed at dinner during these events.

Japanese rarely entertain in the home. If you are invited to the home of your Japanese host, consider it a great honor and display a tremendous amount of appreciation.

If you are invited to a social event, punctuality is not expected. It is the custom to be "fashionably late."

If you do take your host out insist upon paying. The Japanese will refuse but insist. They will prefer that you choose a Western-style restaurant when entertain them.

Key phrases to learn are "itadakimasu" at the beginning of dinner, and "gochisou-sama-deshita" at the end. It is polite use these phrase and it will show you host that you have enjoyed the meal.

"Sumimasen" (excuse-me) is a very useful term to add to your vocabulary along with the phrase "kekko desu" (I've had enough).

It is perfectly acceptable to slurp your noodles. Doing so will exhibit your enjoyment of your food. To do otherwise, indicates that your meal was not a pleasant one.

Do not openly display money. It is rare to see it given from person to person in Japan. It is important to use an envelope to pass money.

In Asia the number 14 is bad luck, because in Japanese it sounds like the word ‘shuh-shuh’, which sounds like the word for death.

Tipping is not expected.

Gift giving is very important both business and personal gifts - See international business gift giving section.

Style is tantamount. The gift itself is of little importance, the ceremony surrounding it is very important.

Always wrap gifts. The selection of the wrapping paper is critical. Do not give anything wrapped in white as it symbolizes death. Do not use bright colors or bows to wrap the gift. It is better to have the hotel or the store warp the gift to ensure that it is appropriate.

Do not surprise the recipient with the gift. Give your host some warning during the evening that you intend to give them a present.

Give the gift with both hands and accept gifts with hands.

Generally, gifts will not be opened in your presence. If your host insist that you open the gift do so gingerly. They take pride in gift wrapping, show that you appreciation the effort.

Do not give gifts in odd number or the number four, as odd numbers are bad luck and four sounds like the word for death in Japanese.

Gifts should be given at the end of a visit.

Do not admire anything belonging to your host too closely. The Japanese strive to please; you may be rewarded for your admiration.

The most popular gift giving occasions in Japan are oseibo, which falls at the end of the year and O-chugen which falls during the middle of the year.

Good gift ideas include top choice beef, fruit and alcohol such as brandy, quality whiskey and Bourbon along with excellent wines. They also appreciate gifts from high-end department stores like Saks and Neiman Marcus.

The Japanese frown on open displays of affection. They do not touch in public. It is highly inappropriate to touch someone of the opposite sex in public.


Communications

In Japan, business cards are called meishi. Japanese give and receive meishi with both hands. It should be printed in your home language on one side and Japanese on the other. Present the card with your home country language side up.

The card will contain the name and title along with the company name, address and telephone number of the businessman. In Japan, businessmen are call "sarariman." A sarariman who does not have a

Take special care in handling cards that are given to you. Do not write on the card. Do not put the card in you pocket or wallet, as either of these actions will be viewed as defacing or disrespecting the business card. Upon receipt of the card, it is important to make a photocopy of the name and title of the individual in your mind. Examine the card carefully as a show of respect.

In a business situation, business cannot begin until the meishi exchange process is complete.

The customary greeting is the bow. However, some Japanese may greet you with a handshake, albeit a weak one. Do not misinterpret a weak handshake as an indication of character.

If you are greeted with a bow, return with a bow as low as the one you received. How low you bow determines the status of the relationship between you and the other individual. When you bow keep your eyes low and your palms flat next to your thighs. The business card should be given after the bow. This is very important to remember.

In introductions use the person’s last name plus the word san which means Mr. or Ms. The Japanese prefer to use last names. Do not request that they call you by your first name only. If you are uncertain about the pronunciation of a name, ask for assistance.

Understand that the Japanese prefer not to use the word no. If you ask a question they may simply respond with a yes but clearly mean no. Understanding this is critical in the negotiation process.

In Asia the number 14 is bad luck, because in Japanese it sounds like the word ‘shuh-shuh’, which sounds like the word for death.

2006-07-01 19:55:18 · answer #7 · answered by The Answer Man 5 · 0 0

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