this guy friend of mine have been friends since we were ten and now we are sixteen. In this past year i have developed feelings for him but don't know if he feels the same way about me, how can i tell if he likes me?
2006-07-01 12:14:55 · 9 answers · asked by samantha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should definately just slowly bring it up and see how he reacts. You don't ever want to live with that "what if?" If yall are really good friends then even if he doesn't feel the same way, it shouldn't affect the friendship too much, as long as you don't let it.
2006-07-01 12:16:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
welll that depends on this is your fellings stronger than your friend ship or is your friend ship stornger i think if yor friend ship is really a friend ship then it wouldnt jeprodize anything if he retains then it might bebcause he just wants to be friend or doesnt see you like that dont worry he m,ight just end up liking you and a way you can tell is if around there friends they act as if your a girl insted of just one of the'guys' and they tend to says to people we go out or he a type that will just come out and say it to you wether friends are around or not but every girl has a liking sense we can if a guy likes us or not but dont ever go on what friends say it will just be a bunch of caoss an confusen you do it on your on g o what you feel is more importon your fellings or friend ship but let me say again it might be the type of friend ship that you can ask out the friend if he or she says no the rlation ship wont change so do what you like not what any body else does
2006-07-01 19:30:38 · answer #2 · answered by rae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should follow your heart. If u want 2 be with him then go for it. Stop being so scared. Whats the worse that could happen? I say u bring it up first, and then talk 2 him about it in person
2006-07-01 19:19:19 · answer #3 · answered by mizz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to him about it...I mean you telling him that might make it wierd for a little bit, but if you are mature about it and he is mature about it...it shouldnt effect anything...and if does damage your friendship that much...maybe you werent as good of friends as you thought...but the thing is he probably likes you anyways...so you probably have nothing to worry about...if you guys flirt and stuff when you guys hang out he probably likes you
2006-07-01 19:17:40 · answer #4 · answered by rdbowles12390 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him; if you've known him for that long, then you should feel comfortable talking to him. I don't think your friendship would be ruined by something little like him not feeling that way
2006-07-01 19:16:47 · answer #5 · answered by pieninja 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
always a tricky one. i was really good friends with a guy at high school, we dated for a bit. now 6 years on turns out he is gay. go with your heart. if its ment to happen it will
2006-07-01 19:17:12 · answer #6 · answered by surfergirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just approach him gently about it. Make sure he realizes that if he isn't interested in something more, you are still okay being his friend. He shouldn't react badly to that.
2006-07-01 19:16:35 · answer #7 · answered by Glenn S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's put with you for six years, he likes you.
2006-07-01 19:17:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say go for it. chances are he likes you just as much. e-mail me please because i have a question for you. are you the samantha i know? my e-mail is jobr1605@yahoo.com. Please e-mail me!
2006-07-01 19:18:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋