I was adpot by my real dad's borthers me and my borther now they are not togother anymore and we are with my uncle and his two kids and his wife is living by herself now everytime he is angry at us he always he make the biggest mistake of bringing all of us with him we have to go to y aunty (now the my mum) but we feel sorry for him he is 54 he is sick if we go no one is going to look after him. Well me and my brother still have two sisters living not far from us can we go there and leave him by himself and his two go back to thier mum please help I am only 14 don't know what to do but kill myself everything I do is always not good enough for him.
2006-07-01 12:12:41 · 6 answers · asked by Kally F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
NO do not kill yourself becase of his issues honey you are a child and should have to live like one and this is not your fault. to kill yourself someone out there will be missing a very important person. you never know this may be gods way of telling you that he wants you to be a counselor or a teacher to help other kids like you when you get older. try to find ways that you can help build your young life, join and after school program, get a babysitting job, work at a grocery store, Keep a Journal! and find a hobby like coin collecting, doing hair, or styling clothes. sit down and take a note book and ask yourself what do i want to be when i grow up. baby you have so much to live for at this time and try to save some money so that you will never be broke or go hungry. NEVER TELL ANYONE HOW MUCH MONEY YOU HAVE> HAVE MORE THAN 1 HIDING PLACE>
please Email me so that i can talk to you more uabgurl22@yahoo.com, i dont care how manytimes you email me. i will help you through this im so sorry you have to go through this
2006-07-01 12:29:12 · answer #1 · answered by uabgurl22 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry that your life is tough, right now. This sounds like a really bad situation for you to be in....and you are so young.
You have to begin to make some decisions to help you and your brother FIRST. It will be very hard....but you have to do it. The adults in your life, so far, have been thinking too much about themselves and not enough about the kids. This happens too much....in all societies.
The first thing you need to do is find a place that is safe. You need to be able to have food, shelter and feel safe when you go to bed every night. Even if you share a room with others it needs to feel safe.
You also need to stay in school. You need a place that cares about grades and helps you and your brother get educated and get good jobs.
Please do not think about death or alcohol or drugs or anything but being a good kid that works hard and takes care of their brother. In a few more years you will be able to change things a lot. Start by taking good care of yourself and your heart and your soul and your health.
Is there someone at a church you know that can give good advice?? Is there a Boys and Girls Club near you so you can talk with someone there??
There is someone who wants to help good kids stay safe and healthy. Work hard with the people who help you and be a good citizen.
You can do it!!!!!!!!
2006-07-01 19:30:15 · answer #2 · answered by TeaSwami 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT KILL YOURSELF. IT IS NOT THE SOLUTION.Christian daughter, you are and will always be His child. I can't tell you anything except to pray for another solution. You have two choices that you are pondering that you are not too happy about, but when I had to decide to finally allow my parents to take care of my child since I have a disability, we have learned to adjust. Maybe you can find someone that can care for him so that even though you are no longer there suffering so much, you still know that he is taken care of; and visit twice a week
2006-07-01 20:08:20 · answer #3 · answered by Ilovechristjesustheking 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing is worth killing yourself for. you have a very long life to live. if our adopt dad is 54 and sick he should go to doctor and get help and not expect you a 14 year old to take care of him he needs nurses and doctors and people who know what they are doing to help him. go live with who ever you feel safe living with and be a teenager and enjoy life. i say let the adults take care of him. it's not your fault he is sick and it's not your responsibility to care for him. yes love him and cherish him but let the adults tend to his medical and daily needs.
2006-07-01 19:25:02 · answer #4 · answered by montanamom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry that u have to go through this . you're too young and u shouldnt have to worry about things like that . i think if u left then it would be good for u but on the other hand if u stayed and took care of ur father Allah will reward u for it .
2006-07-01 19:23:29 · answer #5 · answered by so broken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you and your brother go live with your sisters.
your uncle has enough problems at the moment.
2006-07-01 20:25:59 · answer #6 · answered by leadbelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋