It is seeming that most like to stick to there own kind i have only dated latin women however none work out maybe some of its my own fault but im always refered to the gringo. My question is a question of advice what can i do as a 24 year old white man to attract that specific kind of people i know your human like anybody else but there must be something i can learn to keep me up and attractive to this specific type of people i already learned how to dance salsa and just started to learn some spanish what else culture wise can i do?
2006-07-01 11:47:09 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmmm... interesting question, very flattering also. How white are you?
I'm Mexican and the only thing I can really tell you is that it's true I prefer Latinos over everybody else. Lately however, I've been talking to this guy who is half white/ half Mexican and it's weird but the reason I like him is because he's ghetto!! I mean, ask any Mexican about their summer with a swamp cooler in this Cali heat and they will understand! It might seem kinda strange, but I like a guy who understands what its like to stuff 6 of your cousins and your grandma in a Nissan; he's not gonna laugh because he's done the same thing at least twice in his life! I also like a guy who isn't picky when it comes to food, someone who will eat beans and tortillas every day of his life. I'm starting to think that it's not so much a "culture" thing, just a lifestyle probably. In Mexico where my family is from, no one checks their cell phone every 2 seconds or worries about being late anywhere; it's just such a laid back atmosphere that would be nice all year round. Thanks for learning how to dance salsa, cumbias and rancheras come next you know!
2006-07-01 12:05:22 · answer #1 · answered by Gorgeous 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm a hispanic girl, but i don't really mind if i don't stick to "my own kind", u get what i'm sayin? my first bf was black and then my 2nd was white, and then my 3rd was latino.
and i think it's great that you've learned to salsa dance, cause i love it too. latino families know how to throw a party, so when it comes to dance time, you'll be ready. but all you can really do is wait. learning spanish is a good start though. maybe learning how to cook some mexican food? or latin origin food? i'd love it if my guy knew how to cook.
your situation reminds me of the movie "Fools Rush in" with Salma Hayek. i enjoyed it and i recommend you watch it. it's a comedy/romance movie.
2006-07-02 01:34:45 · answer #2 · answered by Alexis Samira 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself
And why would you just date Spanish women there so many beautiful women out there of other races
Check them out including White,Black,Asian,and yes other Spanish race
2006-07-01 18:51:43 · answer #3 · answered by Linda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋