ring and all. I have known my boyfriend forever and i love him to death. he had a crush on me for as long as i can rember and i finally gave into breaking my selfmade, "don't date your best friend" rule. We've been dating for a while and i do want to marry him, but not untill i graduate from highschool. I've been in alot of relationships...more than most girls my age. More than most 17 yearold girls, (i guess i'm a looker ^-^) my first relationship was in 2nd grade, and this is definately the real thing.
2006-07-01 11:46:25 · 39 answers · asked by Autumn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My advice is your young, but, if you love him, you can say yes, with the stipulation that you stay engaged intil after graduation. That way by then if you guys are together, you'll know its the real thing. I got engaged when I was 17, still in school,but I waited intil I graduated so I could walk with my own name. He understood completely. (we got married the next day..haha)
good luck:)
2006-07-01 12:10:55 · answer #1 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, a second grader doesn't have a "relationship". If the boy you are with now is the one you think you truly want then it will last until you graduate. If he doesn't understand this, then he isn't the one for you. Not only do you need to graduate from high school but go on to college or some type of specialized school so that you have a career of your own. You never know what life will bring so be prepared. Do not rely on anyone to take care of you and you will be happier and better able to sustain a healthy relationship. Don't rush things, honey! You're only young once! Good luck.
2006-07-01 11:54:04 · answer #2 · answered by mab5096 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK...there are a number of seriously wrong things here.....
you are only 15 and you got a marriage proposal?? You are WAY to young to even think about getting married!
You say you have been in "a lot of relationships....more than most girls your age"? Is it a contest to see how many guys you can date? Why cheapen it?
You "first" relationship was when you were in the 2ND grade?
Honey, that isn't a "relationship".......when you find a real, meaningful one, you will know then that its the "real thing".
2006-07-01 11:53:05 · answer #3 · answered by cjs702002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would really suggest waiting even longer. Test him, see how long hes able to hold out. This is just a phase guys go through, your in the middle of highschool and your bored... hey lets propose. What will be the difference if you do marry him to what you do now, its not like your gonna move in with him.. or share finances. Itll be the same, so dont bother with the spending of thousands on a marriage.
2006-07-01 11:51:13 · answer #4 · answered by gillrajb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do whatever you think is best. If you really and truly think your ready for the ole marriage milestone you'll have to get your parent's permission as you're too young to wed of your own free will right now. Realisticly, I don't think they would say yes but if they do and you still want to go ahead with it... well, I wish you all the best. Just be careful that you're not making any mistakes (I'm not saying this because you're young, even the golden oldies have screw ups) ;)
2006-07-01 11:52:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your obviously too young to be married. Just tell him too ask again when you graduate. Personally I think thats also too young, think about college and all of that also..Alot can change in your teen years..you will go through a few guys you love etc..
2006-07-01 11:49:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH LORD....you know damned well you're not mature enough to be in a "relationship" or a marriage. Tell the guy to save it until you both graduate. Believe it or not, you are just too young to KNOW much of anything.
2006-07-01 11:49:49 · answer #7 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie you have time dont rush into anything i understand that you love him dearly but what may seem sweet now could turn sour dont not saying that you may not last but at least you will be 100% sure of what you want and you should even wait even after high school if it is meant to be it will be waiting for you to make something out of yourelf
love urself stay true
2006-07-01 12:01:18 · answer #8 · answered by DEFINE WHAT LUV IS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it really is the real thing, then you should have no problems with waiting for several years to be married.
The fact that you chose to post this question on a public forum says to me that you have questions about this decision.
How old is this boyfriend that proposed to you?
2006-07-01 11:56:47 · answer #9 · answered by jrsgurl62 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i tink u should wait cause 15 is a lil too yung 2 get married. U still have ur whole life in front of u n its kinda aqurd 2 change ur name in high school! But its ur choice, dont rush it tho!!
2006-07-01 11:53:40 · answer #10 · answered by bajanboi_gman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋