I like this girl alot. Shes beautiful, smart, and has a great personality. The problem is that I dont know if she is in a relationship with someone. I dont think she is but I am not sure. I myself am not the most popular guy in school. I am into theatre and some people think I am gay, but I am not. I get good grades, and people resent me for that. People have started rumors about me and some of my deepest darkest secrets have got out. How do I change my image and still be myself? How do I become a ladies man?
2006-07-01 11:40:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Women like confidence. They know it takes guts to ask them out.
So...just go ask her out! You can even say, "I don't know if you're currently dating anyone, but if you're not, would you like to have dinner with me some time? Or maybe go see a movie together?"
If she's not interested, she'll say no. If she does say no, just say "That's okay. You're so beautiful, I just had to ask. I wouldn't be able to forgive myself if I didn't."
If she's in to flattery, that just might get you a second chance. =)
It takes guts, man, but you can do it! Women dig confidence...
2006-07-01 11:44:44 · answer #1 · answered by Kenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude the only thing i can think of is change your image, if you wear glasses change it get contacts, if not get transition glasses the kind that turn dark with sunlight, change of cloths nothing nerdy or punk . If your as smart as you say use that to your advantage if you happen to know she is having trouble with her school work offer your help be her personal tutor. if you do help her out take her to places where there is less people (park, fast food place or library) meaning less interruptions from other people more chit chat between the 2 of you and who knows maybe she might invite you to her house to study then when things are going really good then start asking her out on a date like movies or dinner. things you could do or say if you do become her tutor compliment her on her looks her cloths but not too much, say something funny try to make her laugh a little. and if she does good on her grades reward her get her some chocolates, maybe those small teddy bears or maybe some flowers. if not you can still compliment her and give her some chocolates or something simple once a week well good luck
2006-07-01 19:40:47 · answer #2 · answered by navagator73 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you just can't stop thinking about her. Tell her you think she's a great person and you'd like to get to know her better...
"You know, I can't seem to get you out of my head lately. You ARE really sweet and I think you're really pretty. How 'bout we go get some food after school today? I think I'd like to get to know you better"
Something like that. She's not going to be "grading" your speech. She'll be having thoughts and emotions going on so don't worry about the "how" or the "what" just DO IT!
2006-07-01 19:04:46 · answer #3 · answered by R J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a man or a boy? What do you act like? Women want a man. Get some confidence. Don't be a needy wimpy guy.... that's a big turn-off. Not trying to be mean, this is just my advice.
2006-07-01 18:44:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anna Belle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aw you sound sweet. im sure if you just talk to her and show her you care she'd be happy to at least go out with you once=), but if she makes it clear that she doesnt like you dont be persistent and annoying by asking her out over n over again. orrr you can talk to her friends and ask them to see if she likes you to be positive. and getting good grades isnt a horrible thing...i get good grades! but if you make it sound like getting good grades is your whole lifee and all you do is study and stuff and have no social life then ppl can start to tihnk you're like a geek. you can get good grades but let ppl know you can have fun too. and it doesnt matter if you're popular or notttt. but if you wanna hang out with some popular guys , cuz they usually hang with cool ladiess=), try a sport or i dunoo.. sry this was extremely long ..i hope this helped
2006-07-01 19:00:40 · answer #5 · answered by polkadotprincess19@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talking helps
2006-07-01 18:45:45 · answer #6 · answered by dannym7500 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
step #1:"do you have a boyfriend"?
step#2:"Hey i really like u. seriously!..."
step#3:"would u like to go out with me???"
its easy as 1-2-3...
2006-07-01 18:49:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sprint up to her screaming out your request, if she gets scared do it over and over to desensitize her, you'll have her in no time
2006-07-01 18:51:22 · answer #8 · answered by sooperman1234 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her use use mouth or else u can go with sign language.
2006-07-01 18:44:06 · answer #9 · answered by hauntingskull 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gah u got it bad don't u???
i'm srry- just try to be cool and then ask her casually to go to the movies or somethin
good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-01 18:45:01 · answer #10 · answered by dropdeadgorgeous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋