Ok, so i've always had insecurity issues ever since i was in high school. I never really liked myself even though I had a lot of friends and people treated me well. Last summer something happened and I got a huge confidence boost. I thought i was done for good with my low self-esteem, but now it's creating problems in my relationship. I tried explaining to my bf how sometimes i dont feel special, and how i need reassurance..and instead of just listening he interrupted just to tell me how i cant expect other people to make me feel good about myself and how he feels he hasnt done anything wrong. I got pissed off cuz i didnt want him talking..i just needed him to listen. I know this whole thing is kinda irritating him..most guys dont like girls who cant be confident...so i'm wondering if i should go on a break with him..so i can try to work on these issues without getting him involved...OR should i see how this next week goes before i decide anything? (I'm visiting him next week in L.A.)
2006-07-01 11:38:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all you need to learn to like yourself think of the good things about you the things that make you who you are.Look at yourself in the mirror and say im somebody because God dont make junk.As for this guy your seeing it depends on how much you care about him if you really care for him then tell him how you feel tell him that you you need to be able to talk to him without being interuppted.give him a chance if you really care.You do need to work on your self esteem.dont depend on anybody else to make you feel good about yourself.You might want to read some selfhelp books.figure out what it is you dont like about yourself then ask your self is this real or imagined if its real then work on changing those things.BE YOURSELF AND LIKE YOURSELF.MY EMAIL ADRESS IS memeemelissa@yahoo.com if you want to talk.Sometimes it helps to have a friend who you can pour your heart to.
2006-07-01 12:09:41 · answer #1 · answered by memeemelissa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i had insecurity issues...it ruined my relationship bcuz i was too jealous and didnt feel good enough and all that good stuff...if u have a bf in the first place and u think hes good looking then...hello?...nothings wrong with u!
2006-07-01 11:42:37 · answer #2 · answered by fye10485 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see how next week goes if not then go on a very small break
2006-07-01 11:51:00 · answer #3 · answered by Kiley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to take a break from him, and get your life straightened out........then see where you want to go from there.
2006-07-01 11:47:52 · answer #4 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dont break up with him cuz all da boys are da same ........every morning ask your self why you have alot of friends? why your b.f loves you? you'll know da answer
dont forget to tell him that you was kiddin' to know if you were one of those guys what would he do......and show him always that evrybody loves you and like you.............dont let him think if she dont like her self why should i like her!!!....... lol
2006-07-01 11:45:12 · answer #5 · answered by lillyshamshom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until you see him!
2006-07-01 11:43:33 · answer #6 · answered by alter_egob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋