im 12 going on 13 and i have a bf who loves me alot , ne one can tell, and the other day he asked me if he could be my first, ya know sex,and i didnt know what to say but i think im alil to young. what do u think?
2006-07-01 11:31:42 · 19 answers · asked by punky chips`o hoye!! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't even THINK about it. Not only are you too young for sex, you don't have the life experience to take care of a child (yes, you can get pregnant from one time) and God knows he's not ready. He is just looking to get you naked, have sex, and then disappear or at best ignore you for the rest of your life.
You've heard this before, don't have sex until you get married. You need to be responsible financially, psychologically, emotionally, and morally stable. You aren't. You're only 12. You need to go out and play, enjoy being a teenager (when you get there) and GET RID of any guy who wants you to have sex.
Trust me, if you have sex, YOU WILL REGRET IT.
Also, one other, BIG thing to think about. If you want to be the best for your future husband the one gift you can give him that no one else can is your virginity. Once you lose it, it's gone FOREVER. Think about that.
2006-07-01 11:39:18 · answer #1 · answered by snddupree 5 · 5⤊ 1⤋
I think your a little to young too. Girl cherish it wait for the right person. don't give it up until you find the guy you want to spend the rest of your life with
2006-07-01 18:33:50 · answer #2 · answered by Big Buddha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off,, your so called boyfriend doesn't know what love is,, second,, you sound like you are more mature than he is, at least you know your too young,, you tell him to date his hand for a few more years before he tries to pull that crap on you again !!!
2006-07-01 18:42:51 · answer #3 · answered by john l 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Too young, in my opinion. Wait a couple of years at least.
2006-07-01 18:35:56 · answer #4 · answered by Sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be stupid! 12 and 13 are way to young it can lead to
early pregancy, STD... You should wait untill you're 18 or older.
You know when you're old enough to know better.
2006-07-01 18:35:27 · answer #5 · answered by Someone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're way to young to be thinking of haveing sex.Grow up alittle more sweetie and dont think about having sex again til ur married.
2006-07-01 18:36:38 · answer #6 · answered by Angel sent from heaven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE TOOOOOO YOUNG !!!!!!!!! You are right. YOU decide when, and 12 going on 13 is Way toooo young. Your thought was right!!!! I'm VERY proud of you. And you stick to your guns. If he doesn't like it, tell him to come back when HE grows up!!!!!!
2006-07-01 18:35:27 · answer #7 · answered by Just Curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell yeah your a little too young think about it are you really ready?
If you can answer yes to the following question then your answer is yes but if you saY no then you are not ready! Are you ready to be a mother??
2006-07-01 18:35:18 · answer #8 · answered by futmexochoa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems a bit young to me but i guess the thing is to wait until YOU are ready.
if he loves you he will wait until you are comfortable with doing it.
just make sure you don't end up pregnant or with a std.
2006-07-01 18:35:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are too young if you do it know,
you'll regret it later on in life. and you would've
wished you had cherished that moment with someone else.
have you ever heard of abstinence, it means waiting til'
you're married to have sex, so wait.
2006-07-01 18:37:18 · answer #10 · answered by lovely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋