2006-07-01 11:25:58 · 24 answers · asked by lesley m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Straight Forward...Being Blunt & Honest...Getting Out Of Your Partner Exactly What You Want Out Of This Affair...Other Wise...Wants The Sence Of Haveing An Affair...Let Your Partner Know What His Or Her Rewards In This A Fair Would Be...Give And Take And Know Alkward Guess Work...This Is The ONLY Way To Make An Affair Work Safely & Satisfying...
2006-07-01 11:37:56 · answer #1 · answered by GyVuPhaYs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
VERY forward. And here's why...
lets say your husband/ man found out, and instead of coming to you... he some how found out who the guy was and goes straight to him. Now all of a sudden, the guy you're having the affair with is getting his *** kicked and he has no idea why. So yeah... tell him.
Better yet... how about you just not have an affair. Lets try a little self control and respect for your relationship.
2006-07-01 18:45:31 · answer #2 · answered by *karasi* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the reason for the affair people yes do get hurt and some will get away with it how forward should you be well is your partner in an affair we dont know so get the chance go for it there are 13 comandments and the 13th is dont get caught.
2006-07-01 20:27:34 · answer #3 · answered by kojee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you cheat with someone that have another or you have another shouldn't you leave them
or the other person leave that person
How you know the other partner isn't having sex with other people as well and You get an Diseases or something worst
Remember Affair isn't like you playing catch a fella
I remember someone cheating and don't know that their partner was doing the same and I hope you can figure out the rest of this story,,,
2006-07-01 18:29:46 · answer #4 · answered by Linda 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are having an affair you should be decent enough to tell your spouse that you are having the affair and are a worthless sack of trash.
2006-07-01 18:28:50 · answer #5 · answered by sweetnessmo 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know from experience how difficult it is to stay in the shadows while having an affair. I used to call myself "your dirty little secret". I wanted my lover to tell his wife about us as soon as we realized we were in love. It took almost 2 years. Now, after 4 year, they are finally divorced. You would think that this is the happiest time of my life, but it isn't. Although we still care about each other, most of the "magic" is gone. The excitement lasted longer in our relationship because of it's secretiveness, but now that the infatutuation is over, I see that he is not exactly the man I thought he was. Because I did not push him to leave his wife, I do not feel as guilty as I may have. My advice to you is to do what feels right , but never try to manipulate the situation. It may backfire. He is the one in the marriage (are you too?) so he needs to be the one to do what has to be done in order to make your relationship "legitimate."
2006-07-01 18:41:31 · answer #6 · answered by mab5096 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why would you have an affair to begin with?
2006-07-01 18:26:53 · answer #7 · answered by RainCloud 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you shouldnt mess with someones feelings like that. you should be having an affair at all.
2006-07-01 18:27:41 · answer #8 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As forward as possible
2006-07-01 18:26:51 · answer #9 · answered by chokboywonda 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if i was having an affair I need to tell my other because obviously they deserve better
2006-07-01 18:31:06 · answer #10 · answered by merivel7 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋