lately i've been thinking a lot abt sex (jus with my bf), watching porn, however working sincerely in college........will god punish me ?how will he do it? will he give me bad grades...................please tell....!!
2006-07-01 11:18:51 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Remember always that God made sex, and gave us the ability to appreciate and enjoy it. But, everything is meant to be done in balance. Remember that sex is the foundation of life, as every living entity (not just humans but all animals as well) are a living sign of sex between a couple. However, the reason the Bible, Quran and the Torah has the restrictions is precisely because sex can lead to new life (or death for those created through sex but refused an opportunity to life). It is a very serious business.
The Lord has made it a very beautiful activity that can bind two people so closely, that their closeness leads to new generations of life. On the other hand, if you have sex indiscriminately, you may get pregnant. Then you will be faced with the horror of killing your own child... or raising the child on your own. Yes, you can use contraceptives or other means of stopping from getting pregnant, but what if they fail? It has failed before and contraception can fail again.
Besides, contraception is somewhat like cheating the Lord Almighty. It is taking the pleasure, but not doing the responsible part of the balance, which is to create and nurture new life.
The Lord Almighty knows we are frail creatures. He is forgiving. But when we hurt his innocent, then his JUSTICE kicks in.
Remember it is best to get involved in sexual activity in the marriage setting. Then it will hold a sacred feel to it. I am glad that you at least have the conscience to think it is bad. Many today have slid to a level where they do not even think about it.
May the Lord be good to you and may he forgive us all. If He would apply justice alone, none of us will survive. So, ask for forgiveness and desist from doing what you are not meant to do.
2006-07-01 11:30:23 · answer #1 · answered by NQV 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have to ask such a stupid question then i am forced to give you a stupid answer.........yes!!!! if you get bad grades in school don't blame god or anybody. you will get bad grades for one reason and one reason only, you didn't study! this is what is wrong with Christians they think that their lives are that important that god has nothing better to do than to watch and judge every thing they do. get off your high horse and realize that there are alot more important things going on in the world than you and your sex life. every day thousands of people die in this world just because they can not find something to eat or get proper medical care. maybe you should ask why dose god punish the week and helpless instead of worrying about god peeping into your sexual thoughts!
2006-07-01 11:40:55 · answer #2 · answered by rdhjr1966 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask for forgivness and He will "remove ur trangressions as far as the east is from the west". But u have to make a vow to stop sinning. God will not be mocked. The only punishment for sin is death so if ur still alive then u have an opportunity to start a clean slate with God's help. Speak to a Pastor or a Deacon in ur church they can help u also.
2006-07-01 11:24:14 · answer #3 · answered by Who me? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sin will reap consequences. Either immediately or eventually. Sometimes it won't be until the Judgement.
I suggest you find a way to renounce the porn and clean up your thought life about the boyfriend.
Take it from me, both will end up in regret later on in life.
Porn enhances your desire for sinful, sexual indulgences. Those thoughts about the boyfriend just may come to fruition which may seem utterly fantastic at first, but will cause complications in your relationship and may even end up in an unwanted pregnancy.
If best, you may need time to yourself and gather some good, Christian girls to hang out with to help keep you accountable.
Trust me, the most satisfying, God-ordained sexual indulgence comes from the marriage bed.
2006-07-01 11:23:02 · answer #4 · answered by Josh M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no god will not punish you. god is an entity of love. only you can create your destiny so all that is required is that you be a good person and do the right thing. sex isn't a bad thing unless your using people then your carma will come around in the form of a cold sore on your privates.
danger.
2006-07-01 11:23:33 · answer #5 · answered by dangerwheel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are no different than most of the other sinners out there...You do what you know to be wrong, hoping that there will be no consequences. Bad choices always reap bad consequences. Not only are you developing a very bad habit that will hurt you more than you know in days to come in this life, whether you choose to belive in God or not, it will also affect you in eternity. The fact that you feel badly about your behaviours tells me that in your heart you do believe in God...but you just don't know Him, and don't know how to reach Him. The memories of your illicit sex life will one day trouble you when you settle down and choose a partner for life and get married. Statistics are high for those who live together, or are premiscuous before they get married...saying that divorce is often the case.
You talk like doing something good might erase some of the bad.... no way.... It does not work that way either. If I murdered someone, but gave to the poor, would that make me a good person....??? No!
How does God punish us? 1. He can choose to make life difficult for us. 2. He can allow us to get sick 3. He can lift his hand of blessing in our lives. 4. He can and will let us go to hell if we fail to deal with the problem of sin now.
God is not a big ogre in the sky waiting to smash you to smithereens whenever you do things wrong. He is a loving Father who wants to help you, to love you, and to make a place for you in heaven. Those who go to hell choose it by refusing to accept His love and forgiveness, and by continuing to sin. Rebellion has a price. If you don't like the devils fruit...stay out of his orchard. The devils fruit, that is, the result of sin, is a life filled with pain, sickness, lonliness, divorce, addictions, disease, and unhappiness. But you don't have to do life that way. You have a choice. You can choose to follow God, obey his rules, prepare for heaven, live in love and forgiveness all the days of your life, and you will discover the wonderful life of blessings that follows. And when life does get tough, He will be there to see you through the tough times. Turn to God, ask Him to forgive you right now, and choose to live for Him. It's a truly wonderful life! Try it! And He'll help you with your grades too.
2006-07-01 11:38:34 · answer #6 · answered by rejoiceinthelord 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A thought can lead to an action and an action(sin) can lead to missing heaven, so why do those things and then wonder if God will punish you? God may not do anything until you die and are judged. There are consequences to sin , so don't blame God if you get aids, or VD or raped or cervical cancer.
2006-07-01 11:25:09 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that's not bad. God realizes that we are human, and have human wants and needs. It just might not be healthy for you to think about that all the time. Maybe you need to do other things to keep your mind off of it? Like, take a pottery class, read a book, etc.
2006-07-01 11:23:36 · answer #8 · answered by poeticjustice 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if you believe he will. You are making bad choices that is true. But it is your life and your choice. YOU choose to be good or bad and you are the one who has to live with the consequences. HE will not give you bad grades, the grades are what YOU earn! Life has consequences no matter what you do, you do good, you get good back, you do bad ...... well, you get bad back. HE will not punish you, YOU will cause what happens to happen!
2006-07-01 11:27:25 · answer #9 · answered by angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is a natural part of life. Every creature with a backbone will have sex. You should not be ashamed of your feelings, you were BUILT to have them. Be responsible and safe, and you'll be fine. Why would god have given you a mind, heart and body if he didn't want you to use them?
2006-07-01 11:23:21 · answer #10 · answered by mochalicious_ly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋