It might be daft thing to say but i am getting really ? (don't know what to say) about it, all my mates have someone.
2006-07-01 11:14:44 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont worry about it just get on with your life if you worry too much you could possibly
1. begin to look desperate (an unattractive quality to all but the worst kind of people)
2. end upo with the first person who comes along which is a bad thing
3. waste your life away on some boy when you could be out enjoying yourself
you're only 15 life has hardly begun yet take it easy and be.
2006-07-01 11:20:10 · answer #1 · answered by d_oc22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry. Don;t go out with someone just because you feel you should, or even just because you're lonely. You should wait for someone who's right for you. It will feel so much better. I didn't have a boyfriend until I was 19. I dated a guy for a couple of months when I was seventeen, but it really wasd just dating, and I didn't see it going anywhere so we decided to be friends.
I'm 19 now, and I started dating a guy I've been really good mates with for almost four years, back in January. We've been together almost 6months and I really couldn't be happier. We're very well matched, and I'm so pleased he's my first real boyfriend. Every step into something new is with him, and it's cherished. If you date someone just 'cos, you end up doing things just because you should, and not because you want to. I regret wasting my first kiss on a guy, and wish I'd saved it for my boyfriend, but that's okay, 'cos I've lived and learned, and I'll never have any regrets with my bf. I do everything because I want to.
Amongst all this waffle I'm trying to tell you something - it's special if you wait. Don't be in any rush, life's not always a competition. Those who seem to be winning the race right now may be sad and single again in five years time, or the mothers to unplanned children, whilst you're beginning life with the man of your dreams.
Honey, good things come to those who wait. Be confident in that.
2006-07-01 11:23:47 · answer #2 · answered by old_but_still_a_child 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter when you have your first boyfriend whether it's 13 or 23 all that matters is you are prepared & ready to have a relationship. It's much better to wait until you meet someone with the same moral values as you, someone you enjoy spending time with than just having a boyfriend because your friends have. It could be that you have higher standards and they have just said yes to the first boy that asked. I would rather wait and have a decent, moral boyfriend than rush & end up being played.
These girls who are rushing into having boyfriends usually end up not getting the best grades they could have or get pregnant & spend their lives in dead end jobs.
Just tell your mates you haven't got a boyfriend at the moment cos you haven't found a boy you like enough yet & you are too good to settle for second best
2006-07-01 11:22:57 · answer #3 · answered by madamspud169 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know it seems like an extremely important thing. it was to me too till a few months ago. having a boyfriend is really not that big a deal, it's made out to be though. i have seen many relationships go bad, and at 15, i dont really think you can handle something like that. being single means being able to be yourself, not being answerable to anyone, and living your life the way you want to. don't get me wrong, being in a relationship is great too, to have that person with you, to love you. but, enjoy being single for as long you can. and, most importantly, don't go saying yes to losers just because you want to prove a point, you never know who you are missing out on. and, if you really like someone, then, go talk to that person, or ask him out. and don't worry, it will all be fine. it's just a phase, you will grow out of it soon enough. and the right guy might just be around the corner. it will happen in due course, when it has to.
keep smilin
2006-07-01 11:30:32 · answer #4 · answered by serendipity 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey don't worry someone special will come along, I'm 18 next month and Ive never had a boyfriend, yet kissed a boy!! what does that tell you? any way enjoy being single coz i bet there are girls out there that envy you being single and boys are not always great as they seem.
Keep being who you are and don't change so you can have one. changing self identity to satisfy others is not good coz you wouldn't feel comfortable
So your mates have got someone, don't feel left out, if you do, then speak to the carefully saying you miss them and want to spend some time with them, they should understand.
If they don't then bung them out
2006-07-01 11:29:23 · answer #5 · answered by bluestar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young to be talking about boy friend. Think of what you want to be in life. By the time you are 18 or 21 and you are lucking to get married you will be having sex about 5 to 6 times a week and more if you want. You have nothing to gain but everything to lose by thinking of boy friend at this age. Keep your eyes on the future.
2006-07-01 12:06:53 · answer #6 · answered by patoliko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to find cows go to a farm...
Ie go to where guys are. and get into guy stuff.
Take up martial arts (helps learn to dance too) and practice the stretching exercises where guy can see.
Pole dance lessons (girls only)
Get into snowboarding, and adventure sports... guys love girls into that and you should get more confident
But note guys tend to be shy or nervous around girls they like as in most cases the girsl hurt them simply for liking them. You would need to let a guy know its ok to like you or touch you. maybe asking them out...
Plus learn girlie tricks like waterfights... in a thin white top that gets reveiling when wet. If you are between the guys and a bright light ie sun light your clothes go semi transparent.
The old I don't know how to play golf, bowl, pool gag so the guy has to put arms around you to show you and gets a feel trick... Once dating play a game where its winner says do then win.
or the could you put sun tan on .... any thing to get pyshical contact of any kind.
2006-07-01 13:09:15 · answer #7 · answered by Joey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 15 years old with a whole life in front of you, don't be to eager to tie yourself down with relationships, have fun get an education, the rest will come soon I promise. Take care sweetheart.
2006-07-01 12:26:12 · answer #8 · answered by mams brown eyed gel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy your free time an unbroken heart now for as long as you can. I'm 37 years old I look back at my teenage life and I should have stopped worrying about boys and worried more about myself an my future. Boys will come soon enough, there are a ton out there, concentrate on looking out for yourself and being your own woman.
2006-07-01 11:19:35 · answer #9 · answered by amicque 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry i'll be 19 next month and never had a boyfriend even thought it would be nice to have one. But, at least that's one less thing to worry about. You'll be fine.
2006-07-01 11:26:52 · answer #10 · answered by Jolisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋