I have a friend named Tim he has a best friend that likes me, his name is John. Ever since the first time we met it has been very easy to talk to him. He is having to stay at his house until this comming up wed, because he had to go into surgery last week. I don't know him that well, but he is very sweet and caring towards me. When he is able to leave the house the comming up week, he is going to want to go to the movies just me and him. Which is perfectally fine, but what if he tries to kiss me? I mean I like him alot, but I don't want to make it seem to him that I'm not that kind of girl kissing a guy on the first date and all, but also I don't want to push him away. Should I kiss him and pray that he doesn't take me as that kind of girl that is rushy? Or should I push him away and not take the kiss? I mean it's so tempting, because he is so cute and sweet towards me, but I just don't want him to think of me as an rushy kind of girl... Help Plzz....
2006-07-01 10:50:54 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if u really like this guy just talk to him....
ask him about his intentions, what does he whant from u, if he likes u or he is that kind of guy...
comunication makes all the diference!
during the movie stay close to him, let him grab youre hand but keep youre distance.
just do not let him kiss u if that is the trend in your area(uhen a guy and a girl go to the movies they kiss)
if the kiss comes naturally caused by the atraction between the 2 of u that is ok! is not a rule not to kiss on first dates or otherwise, nad u will not be some kind of girl if u kiss on the first date if that kiss comes frome some feelings inside u!
hope this helps! but trust yourself, be yourself!!!!!!!!!!!!! ok??
2006-07-01 11:01:38 · answer #1 · answered by @leX 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that if he tries to kiss you, accept it and kiss him back. But make it a kiss that means alot but not like a rushy type of kiss. You know? Don't make it seem like he knows you were thinking about this for a long time. If you don't want to do this, then do whatever you want. I mean its your love life and nobody can control it but you. If you don't accept the kiss and he thinks you are being mean, explain to him you just want to get to know him a little bit more better. He should accept you for your decision if he is truly sweet towards you.
2006-07-01 10:57:26 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like him....tell him up front that you don't believe in kissing on the first date. That just who you are. Before he tries to kiss you. Nothing wrong in letting them know what ya' want. He may ask...How many dates will it take. Answer: Lets just she how the first date goes..(smile and give him the batting eyes to let him know that you wouldn't mind kissing him later.) At the end of the date when he takes you home...there is nothing wrong with a simple kiss goodnight on the cheek or a PECK on your lips. So if he tries it is up to you. He already know how you feel about first date kissing. Never can tell, you may never want to see him again and you don't want a kiss. If so...he knows from the beginning...
2006-07-01 11:05:00 · answer #3 · answered by duck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A kiss can mean different things. If you give him a classy kiss on the cheek it would be better (if you don't want to look like a rushy girl) than if you give him a wet, tounge kiss. Give him something to hang on to, and something to look forward to. Hope this helps!
2006-07-01 10:54:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are attracted to him, then let him kiss you but no further. Make it clear (in a polite way) that you will only go so far.
If you are not attracted to him then don't kiss him - in fact don't even date him!
It really is simple, don't worry so much.
2006-07-01 10:53:21 · answer #5 · answered by charleymac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont kiss on the first date if your not that type of girl
just simply tell him that youd want to get to know him better
which i think you should before you make a move.
2006-07-01 10:54:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holy Molely - What a long question - sorry hun but couldn't make it all the way through... you may want to condense your question a bit...get to the point quick and perhaps you'd get some decent answers.
2006-07-01 10:53:56 · answer #7 · answered by RAllen1st 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the kiss. A quick peck would be okay but you don't want it to go too far on a first date.
2006-07-01 10:55:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes if you like him take the kiss! or else if you wait to long he will end up a friend.
2006-07-01 10:54:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really dont think guys care too much about it... At least I dont. Kissing on the first date isnt a big deal to me but to each his/her own... Yea wow.... seriously just try not to think about it so much...
2006-07-01 10:57:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋