2006-07-01 10:47:14 · 10 answers · asked by ice_07angel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im 16 for heaven's sake!!!!!
2006-07-01 11:10:55 · update #1
Im 16 for heaven's sake and it's just been 2 months since we hooked up and all we do is talk and hold hands anyways. Coz we both have our standards that we dont want to compromise. I just feel really miserable right now coz I really like him and I dont know if i made the right decision.
2006-07-01 11:15:19 · update #2
wait your parents told you to break up with your boyfriend? tell your parents to lighten up, there's nothing wrong with dateing.
2006-07-01 10:50:31 · answer #1 · answered by vampire_ryooshi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on your age, my best advice is to associat with your bf according to your parents wishes. If there is no contact I would say that I am sorry. As a parent, sometimes we do things and make decisions for our kids and unfortunately they are not always the best or always right. At any rate please have enough respect for your mom and dad that they are making this decision in your best interest. The bottom line is, when you and your bf are of an age that this restriction is gone if it was meant to be it will. Being a kid and young adult is tough and sometimes less experience cannot see the things that your parents have. Be patient and I know that is not what you wanted to hear but I have to be honest with all that I answer. If honesty is given then good decisions can be made and maybe if you work with your parents instead of working on them the results will be a different thought process they will have and maybe some priveleges go along with it. Progress or solutions will not be from an argumentative or rebelious route. Understanding you do not see the fairness in it remember that your parents are responsible for you until you are old enough to be responsible for yourself. During that time they have to protect you also. Try to open your mind a little and work with what you have and like I said if it was meant to be it will and things will slowly change if you change. Show your parents maturity and they will give some of the responsibility back to you. They may not agree with everything you do or decision you make but little at a time you will be allowed to control yourself. Take the answer no and if you do not agree don't punish your parents as they have guidlines. Best solution is to work on the area of responsibility until it is yours. 9 times out of 9 when a parent gives the responsibility to the kid I have never seen it taken back. Learn what you need as the lesson is not your boyfriend, it is you and your parents are the teachers.. No one thinks growing up is easy and you and your bf have some obstacles but they are passable. It is largely up to you and it takes work and patients on your part. I am on your side and see it from your parents side, I have three boys and I have been there done that. My heart says i am sorry and my mind gives you good advise and the maturity level of your bf will show working within your parents wishes. Funny thing is mom and dad seeing respect and the two of you working within the limits they set and not doing things benind their back shows a level of maturity that might help you and he get over the obstacles more quickly. Can't hurt to try. Good luck to you all.
2006-07-01 11:08:49 · answer #2 · answered by andyman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to respect your parent's opinion, but ask them why they made that decision. He/she/they may see something different in your bf that you don't see. They may be looking out for your safety.
If they don't have concerns for your safety (or other legitimate, real concern), then I think you need to persuade them that you are serious about being together with him, and try to have them understand that you really want to be together
2006-07-01 10:54:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your bf that you love him a lot and that nothing can seprate you with him apart, nothing can. So ypu guys don't need to care about anything else at least you guys can still be together.
2006-07-01 10:52:07 · answer #4 · answered by xoxo§kailey§ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your parents about him... ask him why they dont like him and what the problem with him is... tell your parents that you really like him and that he really likes you... if you're parents are truely supportive of you, they'll respect your wishes and let you be happy
2006-07-01 10:53:34 · answer #5 · answered by baby bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl its YOUR life do wat u want to. i know parents can be a drag and say their just looking out for u but if u truly love or like him then go for it. u wont have ur parents in alll the time. so decide for urself but take ur parent critisims in to check too.
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2006-07-01 10:52:33 · answer #6 · answered by so_totally_awesome13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you need some growing up to do bet your parents where right
2006-07-01 10:52:47 · answer #7 · answered by dannym7500 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its u who loves this guy and will kiss each other and hav sex....not them...so isee no reasons of breaking up...i know its difficult indeeds ...parental pressures...how blind can ur parents be??? sry gurl....but reconcile with ur patner
2006-07-01 10:56:23 · answer #8 · answered by rapstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
contact him again if u r true love try to convance ur parents
2006-07-01 10:50:50 · answer #9 · answered by fari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fight the power and if u guys are in that much love he can devorce his parents!
good luck!!!
2006-07-01 10:50:57 · answer #10 · answered by sarah b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋