I'm pregnant my baby is not for my boyfriend whom I stay with its for my other boyfriend i've had for over a year now, and my boyfriend whom I stay with has devasting news to tell me but he thinks I don't know what this info is The problem is I know my baby is for the other man b/c I've been with kevin for two yrs. never got pregnant never used condoms or no birht control or nothing hes told me before that he has a low sperm count but devasting news he has to tell me is that his other baby mama is pregnant and he thinks its his only b/c he thinks I'm pregnant for him so he thinks he has two babies on the way but really may have none i don't care that he cheated b/c i've been wanting this relatioship to be over what should i do as far as to telling him the truth about the baby no negative responses going through enough right now .
2006-07-01 10:42:55 · 4 answers · asked by Tressybaby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should tell both of them the truth about everything and own up to what you've done. If they stay, they stay. If they go, they go.
Either way, at least you were honest.
2006-07-01 10:46:13 · answer #1 · answered by Kenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in a relationship- why on earth would you cheat? I could never figure that out. Just go on Maury Povich. What is the matter with people like you? Why can't you be faithful to one person? And why do you keep reproducing??? I am sorry- but shame on you. You should use protection, and not have children when you can't be faithful to one person. No wonder the youth of America is the way it is today- no family stability. Don't give me that crap that you had a lousy childhood- grow up and be the first person in your family to change- make something of yourself. You cannot expect not to get negative comments when you post something like this- you know who I feel sorry for- is these kids with different fathers and the same mothers. You can get birth control for free at womens health clinics you know- how selfish of you to bring up children in this world the way you do. YOu know- deep down you are probably a very intelligent person that could offer a lot to someone. Why not go to college, or some type of school, and get a skill- quit blaming everyone for your bad luck and do something about it and make something of yourself. Try believing in yourself- you can do it if you try hard enough.
2006-07-01 10:53:31 · answer #2 · answered by CHELIFAN24 THE CUP IS HOME!!!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, to know for sure is to wait till both babies are born and have blood tests done on them and on the father that thinks both babies are his . ask the health dept if they can do a blood test to find out. find out where the tests can be done for free.
then that will tell the truth and you wont have to.
how old are you and the 2 guys.?
why not use condoms and birth control if having sex with anyone.? it is the safe and responsible way.
sorry had to say it.
good luck and just wait till the babies are born and have the tests done to be positively sure that he is not the father. no guess work.
2006-07-01 10:52:49 · answer #3 · answered by cats3inhouse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with the guy who's not the father and get with the guy who is the father. And let the guy who is not the father get with his own respective girlfriend.
2006-07-01 10:48:23 · answer #4 · answered by electroberry1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋