2006-07-01 10:23:08 · 17 answers · asked by shintylee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
=o) my bf is my best friend. I say it's the best way.
But are you in a relationship with her/ do you both want to be together? F*xk-buddy relationships don't work, you have to be looking for a romance, or things will go so wrong between you... jealousy and all... and please tell me you're both single...
If you are, HURRAH! And well done on saying "make love" instead of "sh*g" or some other crude variant.
2006-07-01 11:48:28 · answer #1 · answered by old_but_still_a_child 5 · 20⤊ 2⤋
Consider these points:
-Have you been seeing each other in a bf/gf way for a while
-Have you known her for a long time
-is she 100% ready and is fully aware of the commitments, etc
-are you 100% Ready and fully aware of the comitments, etc
-are you sure you are in love with her
-are you sure it is just not lust ( the attraction to a female without desire for a full time relationship.)
-Are you fully capable of protecting yourself,
If all the points above are yes I see no reason why not. However be warned: If you have answered no to any of the points above, sex without these key aspects can really spoil a freindship.
hope this helps,
2006-07-01 17:32:41 · answer #2 · answered by mattb77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see anything wrong with that. It's not like you two have a contract with each other that says you can't sleep with each other. She's the same as any other girl she just happens to be your best friend.
2006-07-01 17:27:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is Right to make love to a girl whether she is your best friend or worst enemy.
2006-07-01 17:37:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure its what you both want otherwise youll end up a friend down. Its a situation i am finding myself in at the moment and i also am confused and troubled, u r not alone my friend, good luck
2006-07-01 17:44:53 · answer #5 · answered by razor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's alright for you to make love to your best friends best friend as long as she wants you to !
2006-07-01 17:27:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on if you and her are ready and mature enough to handle where you want to take the relationship and if you are discuss where you want it to go if you should just remain friends or friends with benefits but as long as shes cool with go for It!!!!
2006-07-01 17:26:35 · answer #7 · answered by Tressybaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about your attraction to her, discuss the consequences and consider whether it is lust or love you are feeling. If its lust, you may lose your friend when that initial interest peters out. If it is love and you want to marry her, good luck!
2006-07-01 17:29:55 · answer #8 · answered by Princess Lueji 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You call it making love so yeah - if you`d termed it differently then no LOL.
2006-07-01 22:09:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends... if she didn't fancy you you loose your best friend...
if you are a lucky git and she fancies you... should be the best girlfriend
2006-07-01 20:10:34 · answer #10 · answered by Joey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋