Why cant chicks just reach an orgasm quickly and avoid making us guys feel bad when we can't last long enough? Girls take for-freakin' ever to finish if they do at all. We get down to business right away. Give us some pointers for goodness' sake!!
2006-07-01 10:18:10 · 28 answers · asked by E. T. Gets it 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
those girls you've been tappin must have issues or you can't hang!
2006-07-01 10:20:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
To make a girl orgasm, finger the G spot furiously (or use a G spot toy), masturbate the clit fast at the same time (like rub a powerful vibrator body massager on your clit at the same time). Maybe have an object in her a-nus (a turn on by women). You have to be horn*y in order for the orgasm to work, so you may want to incorporate goat weed or any good aphrodisiac (a sexual libido enhancer, NOT Viagra or "size pills") . The G-spot is on the top inside of the vagina. Curve your fingers up when fing*ring. For a libido enhancer, try http://www.directvideoanddvd.com/listcategory_toys.asp. Maybe pop in a porno. Girls love when you rub the inside of her thigh(s) while you do this. [for the guys to do]
2006-07-05 00:12:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Send your boyfriend to sex classes....No seriously, there can be hundreds of reasons for this, some physical and some emotional. try mood settings that increase arousal i.e., lighting, toys, games and even role playing. Have a few drinks to relax, eat some chocolate ( seriously... research it) Increase the length of four play before intercourse. a more personal question ( sorry) but do you masturbate frequently? if so, this can seriously decrease your sensitivity ( believe it or not it is true and a doctor will tell you this) women who stimulate their clitorous frequently without penetration can train their bodies to recognize and respond to this type of stimulation and make it more difficult for orgasm during actual intercourse. If none of the above does the trick, talk to your doctor to see if there is some medical explanation i.e. hormones not properly balanced ( my wife went thru this) Good luck with your issue!
2016-03-27 00:27:12 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A female has to feel free from the rush to get it over with. She has to get in touch with her g-spot orgasm to ever learn her own needs of being satisfied. I can have an orgasm in less than a minute because I've learned what to think about and my partner has to be interested in satisfying me, not just his self. If you can do that for her, then she should be willing to learn to have her orgasm faster.
2006-07-01 10:30:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude... slow down.. take your time. Enjoy the whole woman..
the look of her, the fragrance, the taste. Spend some time getting to know her body inside and out. FInd out what gets her motor running, what makes it purr and what revs it up... then take her for a nice long ride.. She will will enjoy herself and so will you.
Stop worrying about orgasm and start thinking about the joy of being with her...
2006-07-04 13:44:02 · answer #5 · answered by Klaatu Barada Nikto 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you might not be hitting the right spot to her have a reach an orgasm and maybe she is not the problem maybe you are how long long are lasting ? maybe you should try more fourplay and maybe it help her to have an orgasm before you finish handling your business
2006-07-01 10:23:36 · answer #6 · answered by Tressybaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's where the 4play comes in!!! you do enough of that in the beginning it wont take long at all. And if she has an orgasm before you and you keep going that makes it even better. she will think your the best.
2006-07-01 10:35:06 · answer #7 · answered by gooodluckcharm01 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's most often the males fault and from reading your 'complaint' I'd say that in this case it is most certainly your fault.
The 'pointer' I'd give you is, grow up and find out how a man handles things, not complain about your little boy's shortcomings.
2006-07-01 10:25:15 · answer #8 · answered by ha_mer 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take your time with it. There's more than one spot on a woman to focus on. Make every inch of her quiver with your finger tips, your lips, and your other parts.
Think of it as more of a marathon than a sprint. You KNOW you'll have one, so delay your pleasure a bit to get her adequately taken care of. She'll reward you if you do it right...
2006-07-01 10:25:16 · answer #9 · answered by Mr. O'Clock 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think Carlos Mencia put it best... "Girls can reach orgasm as fast as they want, if you ever question it, give them one of those massaging showerheads and ask them to masturbate with it...it'll take like 5 seconds and oooooooooooo" lmao...Carlos is my hero!
2006-07-01 10:24:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer maybe that they like it alot and enjoy it. and they want to make it last alot longer so they try to keep it from happening so fast. I know some gurls do that!
It probably isn't you.. so don't worry!
2006-07-01 10:22:56 · answer #11 · answered by Shaya G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋