i know a great deal about how to make women happy in a relationship. you care for them, respect them, listen to them, hold them, stay faithful, be reliable, and etc. the problem is that they don't find my physically attractive. so they don't give me a chance to show the real me. what do i do? and how can i change all this?
2006-07-01 10:08:26 · 20 answers · asked by no_resolve 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
try internet dating maybe they will get to know u first nd they will over look the fact that your ugly..........maybe goodluck
2006-07-01 10:12:41 · answer #1 · answered by lisathebestone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let women fool you. They want a nice guy, but only one that they have made that way. Girls are attracted to jerks because they think that they can change them, if they already have a nice guy, well what's the fun in that. Try come off looking like a jerk every once in a while, you will be surprised how your luck with women change. You can be a nice guy when you get with her, just make sure she thinks she is the one that changed you.
2006-07-01 18:12:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, seems like you'd be pretty good for a relationship. You know how to be with a woman- that's very nice. So now, you just need to find a woman who can accept how you are physiquely and appreciate your great personality. For instance, I would much prefer a not so great-looking guy with an awesome personality than Brad Pitt (he seems like a jerk) ! So all I can do now is wish you the best for your search in "personality-oriented" women! ;) Best of luck!
2006-07-01 17:14:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time when I didn't think a guy was attractive I started to like him the more I spent time with him because of his great personality. I recommend being a girls friend first so they can get to know the sweet guy you are and fall for you.
2006-07-01 17:15:20 · answer #4 · answered by Melissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if you're not physically attractive, pay attention to your appearance. Wear good clean clothes, don't have stubble on the chin (although some girls like this), have good hygiene. Make friends, both male and female, hang out with all of them. And stay positive and confident!
2006-07-01 17:12:49 · answer #5 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as I do not know how old you are; I will try and take this from the assumption that you are in your teens or early twenties o.k?
believe it or not; most woman want a really nice sweet guy... hard to believe, I know. as you get older (and the woman get older) you (and they) will realize this.
you do not want someone who is so shallow, that you have to be perfect for them to want to be around you anyway. I know that you are lonely and you would like someone to be with you, and that really sucks!
unfortunately, sometimes we have to tough things out for a while. I might suggest one of the dating sites like yahoo or match.com and posting a pic right up front.. that way when you get in touch with someone they won't have to respond if they do not like your pic.. (too bad for them!)
good luck and hang in there, it will happen!
2006-07-01 17:16:49 · answer #6 · answered by amber 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice guys finish last...unfortunetly...give it time, some girl will fall for you without looking on the outside. She will see who you are on the inside and whats on the outside wont matter....or...you could try changing your appearance. Whatever you dont like...change...haircut, loose weight, go tanning, new wardrobe, etc. Good Luck!
2006-07-01 17:14:29 · answer #7 · answered by LovableLibra84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to improve your looks and dont come across desperate, women hate that. Also don't be so nice, alot of women will run all over you if your nice, treat them alil more like your a bad boy. works everytime.
2006-07-01 17:13:13 · answer #8 · answered by boxing_fan_4_wlad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CONCENTRATE ON ONE SPECIFIC GIRL BUT DONT BE LIKE STALKING HER OR CALLING HER ALL THE TIME BUT WHEN YOU GET A CHANCE SHOW HER THAT YOU REALLY KNOW HOW TO TREAT A GIRL THEN START BEING MORE THAN A FRIEND LIKE START AS A BEST GUY FRIEND then shell get the picture
2006-07-01 18:31:15 · answer #9 · answered by hottie wit dimples 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can whip you into shape easily if you're willing to chat on Yahoo messenger. My ID is drummondaw. My AIM is auoq, just send me a message even if it says "Away". I'll teach you all you need to know because I was in your position many years back.
2006-07-01 17:13:45 · answer #10 · answered by TonyDrummond 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some girls care abotu looks or maybe they just like someone else and not you. Well, me, care about personlatily not looks. yeah looks but not as much as personlatily. Well, I guess you got to wait til a girl to like you.
Good luck!
2006-07-01 17:14:16 · answer #11 · answered by xoxo§kailey§ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋