So stuck!!!!!!!!?
Help!!!!!!!?
My girlfriend & I have been going out for a couple of months, but lately she's been a bit strange, and I don't really know why, she said somethin' bout being scared of commitment? What do I do, do i give space? I'm supposed to be seeing her for the 4th July celebrations!
2006-07-01 10:07:42 · 11 answers · asked by g s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she's going to give give you the brush off dude.i say break up with her first, that way you wont look like such a loser and you will get over it quicker.
2006-07-01 10:12:22 · answer #1 · answered by stranger in a strange land 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her space and time but not too much. Let her know you are still interested in making things work but your willing to be patient with her until she is ready. Dont let her take advantage of that offer though, be careful. On the same note, dont rush her into anything...space, time and dependability....be there for her without smothering her.
2006-07-01 17:11:35 · answer #2 · answered by LovableLibra84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she's seeing you for the 4th then see her and have fun, if she's scared of commitment then show yourself worthy of committing to. whatever you do don't push though, that will send the wrong message, how about being honest and saying that the situation confuses you, that you care for her and you are there for her and asking what exactly it is she wants you to do....that will get you much further than trying to guess what she wants plus it has the bonus of showing that you are truly interested in how she feels not in just getting what you want from her
2006-07-01 17:12:33 · answer #3 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to me. I did & said that it all the time. If i were you, give her space and dont call her OR even better, you can turn it around that its what YOU want. say,"yeah, you want your space, thats cool." Nonchalantly like thats what you were thinking but dont say that. shell wounder y u didnt act like you cared. Go out and let her see you out with the guys havin fun. and dont call her at all until she calls you. Shes already getting the heebie jeebies.
2006-07-01 17:11:25 · answer #4 · answered by Baby Jack born 4/5/09 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe space is just what she needs but not too much space that she feels that you wouldn't care if she left or maybe shes not sure about your commitment to her.
2006-07-01 17:14:57 · answer #5 · answered by Tressybaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go see her and everything just dont be to clingy let her reach for ur hand and whatnot and give her a little space but not to much or she will think that u dont care anymore
2006-07-01 17:15:10 · answer #6 · answered by hazeleyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes give her space cause if you be to clingy, she will just be acting even stranger.
2006-07-01 17:10:32 · answer #7 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her, she wants to break up but she does not know how. If you really care for someone, sometimes you have to set them free.
2006-07-01 18:17:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about this. Ask her why is she being like this. Maybe something in her life change her.
Good luck.
2006-07-01 17:11:06 · answer #9 · answered by xoxo§kailey§ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absent can make the heart grow fonder BUT it can also make the heart FORGET Now can you decide
2006-07-01 17:10:39 · answer #10 · answered by RASTAPRINCESS231 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋