i like this one boy right im 16 he 18 he wants to meet my mom but my mom dont like none of my friends how can i to my mom and explain how i like this one boy and that that boy wants to meet her and talk to her and see if he cant take me out to eat or just to hang together
2006-07-01 09:15:39 · 9 answers · asked by lilhdsgurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her he's a real nice guy and wants to meet her. And after she meets him ask about him taking you out to eat and make sure he makes a good impression.
2006-07-01 09:18:30 · answer #1 · answered by Lauren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assuming by your question that your father isn't around anywhere, like you're in a one-parent household, I'd say respect your mother's wishes if, after talking a bit too her she remains adamant against meeting any particular friend of yours. But there is so much more that I'd want to know about your family, like where is your dad, before I really give my best answer. I am a retired mental health professional, and as I did my evaluations of families and individuals, I'd be sure to cover quite a bit of background on the family and each individual before I would compile a legitimate evaluation that I'd be willing to put my signature to, so I'd ask the same of you. If you give more information, I'll try to give a better answer. God Bless you.
2006-07-01 16:22:25 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your mom, explain what a great guy he is, and simply say, Mom, I would like you to meet him.As a mother I am telling you that she is just concerned for you.See, if, after she meets him if she is still a little "iffy" about him for the for the two of you to hang out and watch movies a few times in your home.....maybe this will give her a chance to observe the guy and get to know him better.
Best of Luck~~!!!!!
2006-07-01 16:21:40 · answer #3 · answered by Heather D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think that you should ask to your mom if you could invite a friend to eat at your home, if she said no, try to explain her that is important for you that she meet your friends and the people that you are going out too,because you want to build a strong trust-comunication relation with her.
Hope this help you!!!!, Good luck on it....
2006-07-01 16:24:50 · answer #4 · answered by kiriamartinez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a mom id rather meet the man than have my daughter sneak. show this to your mom. you are being honest honey and i respect you for that. he is only 2YRS older no big deal. in two years you can leave home. doesn't your mom want to be your best friend like i am with my son and daughter?that does not always mean that you get your way. however, this means alot to you. who knows maybe? she will like him. wish you the best sweetheart.
2006-07-01 16:25:32 · answer #5 · answered by shiznick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not try talking to her first about relationships in general then ease in the toopic about your friend that you would like her to meet. I am sure if you try communicating with your mum or even ask her what she feels about your friend she may end up just liking this one. - Good luck.
2006-07-01 16:21:42 · answer #6 · answered by mdljuli 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably your Mom has some issues. She has your best interests at heart, talk to her.
2006-07-01 16:29:09 · answer #7 · answered by ag_iitkgp 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say, that you really care abvout this guy. tell her that he cares so much about you that he wants to meet your mom.
2006-07-01 16:21:17 · answer #8 · answered by ♫♪♬♥Allie♥♫♪♬ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it, wait till you're legal
2006-07-01 16:19:34 · answer #9 · answered by Lil mama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋