There's this[really shy] guy......in the begginning of the year I found out from one of my friends that he had a crush on me. I'd never really noticed him before [he goes to my church] and would've never really taken a double glance at him, had it not been for the fact he had a crush on me. Ok so a couple of months go by and I'm still pretty confused about my feelings for him. I guess I really did like him in the beggining, and he sort of grew on me. I'm not allowed to date till I'm 16, but he told me he'd wait for me. The point is, I've been telling everyone that I like him and he really likes me and he thinks I like him the same way, but the thing is, I just don't know how I feel about him. I'm so confused. He's got such a sweet personality...did I mention he's really shy? And he's so....inexperienced in bf/gf relationships [as am I] (meaning I'd be his first gf vice versa ect.) I know you can't really get into my head and say 'oh you like him' and all but from my POV wat would u do?
2006-07-01 08:51:58 · 14 answers · asked by K 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are not sure, it is only fair to explain this to him. That way he can make an informed decision on whether or not to wait for you. Think about it though, if you don't tell him, and end up not wanting to date him you will have wasted all this time for him when he could have met and falled in love with someone else, and been really happy.
It's the decent thing to do.
2006-07-01 08:55:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Woah sounds like me.
Okay first its awesome to have these mixed up feelings. And yeah know all that stuff. But really just be open with yourself. Go someone where quite and ask yourself.
Do I like this guy.
don't think of the pro's and Cons don't think about what you've told everyone else. just listen to the first word that comes to mind. if it's yes. then it's yes. don't worry that he's your first. Wait till your 16. (it's never good to get in trouble over love) and they go out... and if it works it works if it don't it don't
If the anwer is no... then acept the fact and realize that without saying anything your friends put you under pressure to tell them this. it might be because they have BF, and GF. but it don't matter calmly tell them you don't really like him.
And if he should ask you. Tell him. I don't feel the same way about you that you do me. I know I said I did but I messed up.
(hope this helps) and have a great day!
2006-07-01 08:57:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you can't "date", but that doesn't mean you can't see him!
I'm sure there are plenty of group activities both of you can engage in in order to hang, aren't there? Get involved in them.
Look for activities in which you and he will both be there where your parents can meet him and get to know him. Once they realize what a nice guy he is, they may ease off on the "no dating" rules.
Just because you don't have an "official" date doesn't mean you can't grow your relationship. Whatever you do, don't go sneaking around behind your parents' back to see him. That would "prove" their point and really hurt you in their eyes.
Play by their rules ... but put them in a position to understand this boy is a good one ... and that you have terrific judgement!
Good luck, honey!
2006-07-01 08:59:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it would be a very good experience for you, I mean neither one of ya'll have any experience in the bf/gf situation, and things like that. But the main prob is, your parents don't want you dating until you are 16 you could talk to your mom about it and see what she says, the moms are always easier to talk to. You could ask her if her and your dad met him if they would consider you being able to date right now. Good Luck !!!
2006-07-01 09:00:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-01 01:29:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you guys obviously do like each other but ask yourself, do you like him for him or just because he shows interest in you? Also, that is very good that your not dating until your allowed to. Keep it that way. If he really likes you, he WILL wait for you. Just give it time, whats meant to happen will happen! :)
2006-07-01 08:56:21 · answer #6 · answered by Fearfully & wonderfully made 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you are not even 16 yet, stop worrying about dating and all of that nonsense. Trust me, it is not as fun as you think it is. Relationships, even good and happy ones, bring headaches and heartaches.
2006-07-01 08:55:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a chance take it slow n see what happens its a learnin process n everyone whom u date leaves a memory in ur heart
2006-07-01 08:56:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when your 16 just try casually dating him and see how you like it
2006-07-01 08:56:14 · answer #9 · answered by Cameron 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
slow down take a deep breath and think about how you really feel about him
2006-07-01 08:56:52 · answer #10 · answered by monkeybaeza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋