im in love with someone but hes not in love with me and i have loved him for 5years and i just dont know whats going to happen cuse i know he doesnt like me because he cares more about his REP then me and i know how he feels about me but the thing is what would people think about us can you help me
2006-07-01 08:49:55 · 7 answers · asked by monkeybaeza 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am in love without my x-husband now for 32 years. Two years ago we divorced, he said he doesn't love me anymore, but I do him. You sound young, not that you are to young to experience love, but what I am doing now is finding my way to God through reading, praying, worshiping, etc, etc. This is giving me peace through a very difficult time. I believe we will reunite one day, even with him saying no way , ever. Sometimes you have to step back, believe in your heart and see what happens. I truly wish you luck.
2006-07-01 08:57:17 · answer #1 · answered by DG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all who gives a damn what people think, i believe if two people are in love they should not care what others think of them and also they should not worry about their REPS! i hate it so much when others judge other couples when their relationship is going bad, they never look at what is happening in their life. NEVER EVER listen to what other people think and say because if you do then you will not be living your life, it would be like your living their life, screw that!.....if you listened to what other people had to say then get ready for depression all the way.....JUST DO what you think is right even if it is wrong and you believe it is right then do it, enjoy your life. AS FAR for the guy that you love and he doesnt love you back sweety forget him there is so many better guys out there that will love you back the way you should be loved, two way love not only one. i was in love with a guy for 5 years as well and he was the same way he liked me but had a hard time saying it or showing it so i was like you know what screw this and i moved on now i have a boyfriend who loves me just as much as i love him......whatever happens just be happy and ALWAYS SMILE! :) good luck sweety!
2006-07-01 15:58:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, if he's that much of a jerk as to not go out with you just because he's worried about his rep, forget about him. Unrequited love is the kind that hurts the most, and I think you've let it go on for too long. Why do you love him anyways? He can't be that nice or sweet, because cleary he's shallow if he's worried about his reputation, so I don't know, maybe you just like him for his looks? I don't know, but good luck!
2006-07-01 16:00:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in a similar situation. I was in love with sons godfather for almost 5 years. I new he cared about me alot too. ANd he was married and has 4 kids. BUt we could never be together because is religon is against it. It was really hard for me cause I loved him soo much and I new he loved me but we could NEVER be together. His family and their religion comes first. In my eyes I didnt care I would of loved to be with him.We even tried seeing eachother behind everyones back, but it hurt more. I spent a few years crying over him, and couldnt keep a relationship cause I always thought of him. Then I realized that I cant keep living a life that wont happen. If that makes since. I did alot of dating and had troubles, but I stayed strong and realize that it would never happen. Then finally the Lord kept me in his heart as he always does and he introduced me to the most wonderfull man, My Husband. My husband is my sole mate and I love him soo much. And honestly ya I still care about my sons godfather (always will) but I would never trade my husband in for him. The Lord guided and helped me getting over my "love" and brought me a better love that loves me back no matter what!
2006-07-01 15:57:39 · answer #4 · answered by Piper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else to date. If all he care's about is his REP and you do get into a relationship with him then you'll just be a miserable girl with a boyfriend who dosen't care about her. Try to find someone else to love. Forget about him, if you hang on to your feelings for him it will only bring you pain.
2006-07-01 16:02:20 · answer #5 · answered by vampire_ryooshi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im alittle confused, Your a large woman as i see from another question you posted , But do the man your talking about have a clue at all after five yrs? I fnot forget it
2006-07-01 15:55:04 · answer #6 · answered by jonr35 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's that shallow - f*ck him! u dont need that. Pleanty more fish in the sea and I've been where you are. There comes a point when u just gotta say "what the hell am I doing" and move on
2006-07-01 15:53:06 · answer #7 · answered by kizdrop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋