When in bed with a woman, I seem to have the opposite problem to most men-I can't climax. It could be part psychological, not sure of the ratio between it being physical and psychological. Most of the time I don't care because the emotional high of making love to a beautiful woman is enough for me. But I'm not ready for a baby yet, so I don't want to stop using condoms. I usually run out of energy before it can happen. Manual stimulation from a woman works because I don't need protection, provided she can keep up enough speed for long enough. But my current girlfriend doesn't have the speed, let alone the energy to sustain it. I always do my best to satisfy her in bed and she says she enjoys our love making. But it would be nice if I could climax occaisionally. It doesn't have to be every time. How do I make climax easier?
2006-07-01 08:23:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Feel for me I've NEVER climaxed!
2006-07-05 22:03:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've had the same happen. Be consoled. I was complimented on the fact that we had sex all night and that I wanted to go again after about ten minutes (although I didn't tell her there was a problem, and each time there was foreplay and she climaxed). You'll probably find that you're nervous or anxious. If you're with a partner for a while, you'll probably find that you relax a little more, and that it naturally occurs. It's difficult to explain, but the more you think about what you're doing, the more of a problem it is. If your partner's fairly open minded, do what "does it" for you, and don't be afraid to suggest things that you think will stimulate and excite you.
2006-07-01 08:39:00 · answer #2 · answered by Grimread 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I'm so sorry to hear that. REally. I met a guy once- He on the other hand- had the same problem you have. But- he ejaculates prematurely. meaning- he doesn't know nor feel when he's coming.! The sex suched but during the time I liked him so I didn't care.
Anyway- I don't think it's normal. Maybe you should pay a visit to your family doctor. It could be multiple reasons. meaning if you are on any kinds of medications that maybe causing this matter.
Good luck-
ps. you have a wonderful and understanding woman.
2006-07-01 08:31:07 · answer #3 · answered by roxylee11782 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't see yourself having a baby with who ever your having sex with don't have sex with them.
I know from experience that condoms and pills combined don't always work if God wants you to have a child your going to.
How about you stop having sex until you meet that special person, after all you have a hand and maybe when you do meet that person you'll be able to climax.
2006-07-01 08:34:16 · answer #4 · answered by 2smomma77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could use oral... Or anal... Or you could fake it... You use a condom, so just make out you've climaxed then go to the bathroom to finish yourself off... ;)
2006-07-01 08:50:09 · answer #5 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get her to go on birth control and have her on top most of the time. that way you dont do any work
2006-07-01 08:32:23 · answer #6 · answered by Mischelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop thinking and forcing your self, your body seems to be fully satisfied, just give time to regain its energy.
2006-07-01 08:32:32 · answer #7 · answered by A.Z. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her to master the act of oral sex!
2006-07-01 08:30:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a blow up doll
2006-07-01 11:32:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
by doing good actions action for satisfaction...lmfao idk go to a doctor and ask him?
2006-07-01 08:28:57 · answer #10 · answered by bsktballchik 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋