There is this girl who loves me dearly, and would have loved to gone for a walk with me last Thursday. Unfortunately, she had a swim meet and said she would call me back. She also invited me to her meet, but I rejected it giving me the impression that she was not interested in me anymore. But I still went ahead, and called her like 3 days ago. She was eating dinner, and said she would call me back soon but she never did. I do not know what to do. Do I leave her or call her back for the 3rd and final time? Is she playing games? If so, should I leave her?
2006-07-01 08:10:25 · 21 answers · asked by 120 IQ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes it is
2006-07-01 08:16:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please give her space. You don't want to seem like a obsessive crazy man and scared her off. If I were you, I won;t contact her for 2 wks after you read this e-mail. Let her contact you. If you do all the contacting you will never know if you think about you. Let her make the move first it. In the meantime you to date other girls to. You want stay focused on one person. You not being a player. That what dating about, meeting and getting to know people. Don't never focus on one person unless you know it a possibility the relationship going to be serious. You want know for a long time. Good luck.
2006-07-01 08:20:07 · answer #2 · answered by tasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your phone calls aren't working for whatever reason then you need to stop calling for a few days. She may be trying to say something to you by not taking your calls....or....Your calls just aren't working. Trying running into her in person and don't bring up the phone as though your obsessing over it. Just let a natural conversation ensue...I wish you the very best. Vixxxens' answer was pretty much on track here....read her answer.
2006-07-01 08:15:38 · answer #3 · answered by BudLt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls love to talk on the phone with thier boyfriends. I have news for you, she doesn't love you dearly. If she did, she'd be calling you, and you wouldn't be wondering if you should call her or not.
Give her one last call, and if she blows you off again, don't bother with her. There are a lot of girls out there...find one that's interested.
2006-07-01 08:16:17 · answer #4 · answered by jimmy h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes even when you called 2 many times in one day, U gotta let her breath for a while.
2006-07-01 08:14:08 · answer #5 · answered by Strawberry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be seen as beeing to needy. Needy is bad. Cool the calling and try to give her space in time she will call you. If not then she is blowing you off and I would confront her on what is going on in a civil way.
2006-07-01 08:14:48 · answer #6 · answered by Vixxxen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call more than once a day, or once every two days if you can manage. Girls like to be called, not stalked.
2006-07-05 17:23:52 · answer #7 · answered by ooh_rah07 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep going, but from what u said i dont think u really like her that much any how so try one more time leave a message saying ur sorry.
2006-07-01 08:17:32 · answer #8 · answered by superman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think both you are playing games. Just call her one more time and if you do not get her...move on ! NEXT !!
2006-07-01 08:14:16 · answer #9 · answered by confuse06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should go in front of her and talk to her face to face coz calling a girl too many times is annoying.ask her wat she wants and if she wants to continue being ur gf or not .otherwise tell her tht u cant deal with all the ignoring stuff.i know she will undeerstand.
best of luck
2006-07-01 08:16:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
calling too much is sooooooo annoying! im dealing w/ a guy like that now. he calls me all day, everyday. im about to blow him off.
2006-07-01 08:15:25 · answer #11 · answered by the_kid_doesnt_care 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋