2006-07-01 08:09:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When I separate the person from who they are, i.e. a body part, that person has an incredible bottom, or they are hot, I am separating the person from who they are to how they appear/look. I am also idealizing who they are based on the objectification of their body, i.e., because that person is hot, I would like to get to know them, or somehow they are appealing emotionally mentally because they are hot. As I am objectifying, lust shows itself in fantasy. What would I like, what would I like to do with and to them. So I would say when the idealized picture of this person is replaced with reality, IE., who they really are. You can accept and be willing to see past faults, issues, problems because Love carries no jealousy, love doesn't judge, love don't do anything for self gratitude, love gives unconditionally, love is trust, love is respect, love is truth! So yes they can co-exist.....
2006-07-05 01:28:08 · answer #1 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Ditto from my last questions answer...
Sex is the act of...showing one they really enjoy them...
Love is the whole sprite of wanting someone in your life and showing them you really care about them.
Lust is the ooooollllllaaaa llllaaaa of having feeling for someone and being really turned on, how they make you feel.
Yes they can co exist..
2006-07-05 09:20:29 · answer #2 · answered by MissChatea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes they do co-exist.
2006-07-01 08:18:18 · answer #3 · answered by lalgita12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, u have to have it balanced though
2006-07-01 08:13:43 · answer #4 · answered by u_wish1205 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋