My bf flirts all the time and it ticks me off but when i told him he just said i cant help it. I love him and i know he loves me back but im afraid of loosing him.
2006-07-01 08:05:45 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i told him to stop and he said he was just talking but do u think letting another girl wear his hat is just talking....not just any girl... his ex.
2006-07-01 08:14:53 · update #1
Just tell him this, if you really love me then you shouldn't be flirting with other girls. And when he says I can't help it say this, well baby I can't help the fact that I love you and it hurts me soo bad whenever you flirt with other girls. My heart is hurting so badly everytime you flirt with another girl, because I have a huge frear of loosing you. So if you really love me please don't do it.
2006-07-01 08:10:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignore it. Flirting is harmless fun. If your gonna go off the deep end and say flirting is equal to cheating...then he might as well just cheat on you as you will have the same reaction.
You really want to say that he may never speak or look at another girl, EVER. Or you want to give him a handbook-'It's alright to say hello, but don't say 'hey'.
Just let it go
2006-07-01 08:11:05 · answer #2 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that sometimes guys don't realize that they are flirting. When my husband and I go out, like to parties and stuff, it sometimes seems like he likes to flirt, as a matter of fact, I know he flirts. I too know he loves me, but he just loves the attention! Then I look at the girls who he flirts with and I think to myself, GEE "she" must be loving it! HA HA cause they are UGLY. Don't worry about losing him. Men will be men! As long as its safe flirting, I am sure he flirts with you too. And as long as he keeps that up then your okay! Flirt back with him....
2006-07-02 04:59:11 · answer #3 · answered by LO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make him jealous by flirting with other guys especially when he is around.if he asks u to stop tell him tht u cant help it either and until he stops flirting u wont stop.if this doesnt work dump him or u will have a ough time to face.
2006-07-01 08:10:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he can so totally help it. that's just an excuse.
start flirting with other guys, and when he notices say something like "oh, was i flirting? i didn't even realize it. sorry honey, i guess i just can't help it!" give him a taste of his own medicine, and he'll stop if he loves you. and if not, he wasn't worth it.
2006-07-01 08:08:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl if u gotta spend that much time worryin bout him leavin u then why do u need him, u already told him it bugs u and all he said was that he cant stop, bulls-h-i-t. he can he just dont want to. whats good for him is good for u give him a taste of his own medicine..see how he likes it. hell either stop or not..if it was my man who told me that i would tell him, oh so u dont want to stop then maybe i should find some one who respects me enough not to.
2006-07-01 08:10:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shake it off and flirt with his friends....once he see's his friends flirting with you back he'll get a taste of his own and think twice about it next time...
2006-07-01 08:08:07 · answer #7 · answered by Sharlala 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sucks. you could always say that if he doesnt stop flirting its over, but that might not be the best idea..............idk my ex bf flirted with his GUY friends in front of me, and i just asked him not to and he toned it down some........that was an awkward time (he was bi, as you may have guessed)
2006-07-01 08:10:13 · answer #8 · answered by my_cat_rocks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my ex used to do that all the time. like look at chicks right in front of me. so i used to give him a dose of his own medicine. i would break my neck to check out other guys. he would go bezerk. try it sometimes. he'll know how u feel and learn to resepect u. oh yeah he and i didnt break up over that.
2006-07-01 08:11:25 · answer #9 · answered by the_kid_doesnt_care 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you he'll respect your feelings. He can't help flirting is a poor excuse - he's a player. Dump his butt!
2006-07-01 08:10:15 · answer #10 · answered by Leila 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋