I can't help but think that I'm going to get screwed over somehow. How do I learn to not hold back and let the past dicate my life?
2006-07-01 08:01:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The key word is past. You can not let what happened in other relationships ruin what could be a great relationship with someone else in your future. I have had the same problem until I realized that if you do not have trust you will not have a relationship. You can not blame other men for faults of other men. You need to work on the new relationship and leave the old ones out. Let him know you have major issues with trust so you both can work on what you both can do to make you feel at ease. If he dose not give you any reason to doubt him then don't. Do not let the past ruin what could be your future. Good luck and just to let you know there are alot of trustworthy men out there ,you just got to pick the right one.
2006-07-01 08:18:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, you don't want to live in the past. Bad things some times happen in relationships, but so do lots of good things...it's a risk, a risk well worth taking. Lots of things are risky, such as driving..over the 4th some thousands will die in crashes...but millions will still drive.
2006-07-01 15:06:48 · answer #2 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust in any relationship is earned, not given. Lighten up. If he deserves your trust he will earn it. And your past is a good guideline to learn from. You don't want history to repeat itself. There are always red flags that we choose to ignore until the damage is done. Go out, have fun, don't ignore the red flags. ;)
2006-07-01 15:06:15 · answer #3 · answered by Male_Naughty_By_Nature 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a new relationship so give yr trust dont let the past bad ones over rule yr new one
2006-07-01 15:04:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think positively about this new guy.They are not ALL jerks,hun.Good luck!
2006-07-01 15:04:56 · answer #5 · answered by MaryBeth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be true to yourself. The Heart never lies.
2006-07-01 15:04:53 · answer #6 · answered by shizzmite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time swettie.
2006-07-01 15:04:30 · answer #7 · answered by Shikibeeks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋