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my girlfiend is in alabama for a month and the first week she was at as co-ed overnight camp for 5 days and her ex boyfriends live in alabama. if you were her would you hang with your ex. now this is were my ex comes in i want my ex back she said none will treat her better than me i still have feelings for her i just dont know what to do should i dump her and why or why not or what do you think i should i do i think she might cheat on me and i will never know. plz help me

should i dump her and get my ex back

we broke up once and the only reason her and her ex broke was because she moved to michigan

she did something and she wont tell me or my brother im worried she might have done something with a guy or her ex

we broke up because i loved my ex and i wanted her back and its happening again

we broke up because i loved my ex and i wanted her back and its happening again

we broke up because i loved my ex and i wanted her back and its happening again

Answer 1

Whew!!! Well, first of all, your ‘question’ is worded in a very a confusing manner. So, there could be many different answers and/ or advice for your situation. Anyway, in order to shed some light on the initial part of your question, one would have to ask themselves about the relationship she had w/her ex-boyfriend. Obviously, your girlfriend’s ex is her ex for a reason. People don’t usually break-up w/ one another if they have an amazing relationship. If I were to go away somewhere that my ex may be, and I was currently in a new relationship, I would have absolutely no reason to hang-out w/ my ex. I’m not about to revisit something that didn’t work out. I like to move ahead in life; not dwell in the past. However, I don’t know any of the facts concerning your girlfriend and her ex-boyfriend’s past. So, this is something that you really would have to ask yourself, or give us some more info in regard to there past connection. But, if she’s truly into you, there is absolutely nothing to worry about. Besides, she's a sleep-away camp and Alambama is a pretty big state. I really don't think they will allow her ex in there. And, chances are that he lives no where near there.
Now, in your case, you sound quite perplexed. Why did you break-up w/ you ex-girlfriend? If it had something to do w/ her cheating, then that’s a good reason to stay away. What’s the point of being w/ someone you can’t trust? Trust is the foundation of any healthy relationship. I also, would like to know why you are w/ your current girlfriend. Do you love her? Does she make you happy? Are you w/ her to avoid being alone?
There are a lot of questions that you should ask yourself. If I were in your situation, I definitely would not rekindle a relationship w/ someone you can’t really trust; no matter how much you care for her. It will never last. Now, if I am currently in a relationship and am thinking about being in a relationship w/ someone new (Well, in your case, someone old), maybe I am w/ the wrong person. If your really loved your current girlfriend, you wouldn’t be considering a relationship w/ an ex-girlfriend. Obviously, there is something missing and you may just be w/ the wrong person. Maybe, the best thing for you to do right now, is just be single. You should never settle for anyone, especially if it’s to avoid being alone.
Well, now that I saw your additional posts, I have a bit more info. It seems to me that you want what you can’t have. This is the second time that you are considering breaking up w/ a girlfriend in order to get back w/ an ex-girlfriend. Even if your current girlfriend broke up w/ her ex because she moved, doesn’t mean that she’s not happy w/ you now. And, it’s highly unlikely that she’s going to hang-out w/ him. I think you really need to ask yourself the same questions I stated earlier. However, I really believe that if you go back w/ your ex-girlfriend, you will just end up breaking it off w/ her again (Maybe to go back to your current girlfriend). It seems that you feel you can’t trust her and that should be a red flag. On the other hand, maybe you feel that way because of your indecision. People tend to redirect their own fear on to other people. Whatever you do, don’t stay w/ your current girlfriend for the wrong reasons; don’t go back to your ex-girlfriend for the wrong reasons; and consider just dating different people for awhile.

Answer 2

just cause she's in the same STATE as her ex doesnt mean shes gonna cheat on you (i wouldnt).......somehow i dont see an overnight camp letting the kids wander around in alabama alone, so dont worry.....you, on the other hand are the one SHE should be worried about. if you still have feelings for your ex, you need to really think about whether ypur current gf is worth giving up for your ex. consider why you and she broke up in the first place, and if that might become an issue again, i wouldnt suggest getting back together with her.......if you cant decide, make a list of pros and cons about each

Answer 3

i know that no amount of worrying about it will influence whether it does or doesn't happen in any way so its completely wasted energy. not that it sounds like either of you is very concerned about the relationship anyway, you are worried about her cheating while at the same time considering going back to your ex and talking to her, so what are you worried about? the worst that will happen is your gf does the same thing you are doing!

by the way the ex doesn't really care about you, that just means she dated some other guys and they treated her like crap and you didn't do that, whatever it was she didn't like about you in the first place is still there, she's settling so it won't work. she's not calling and saying she's crazy about you and misses you so much it hurts, she said you treat her better than other guys do. its all about her not you. whatever caused the breakup in the first place is still there. frankly you all sound pretty immature to me.

Answer 4

Depends on what you want to do. If you want to break from you current girl friend, just use her trip to Alabama as a good excuses and use the time she's away as a reflexion time (you can come back to your ex by telling her that now alone for few days you thought...)
It's definitly up to you, make up your mind and decide which one counts for you and which one you trust (you don't seem to trust the current one..)

Answer 5

Well it depends on the reason they broke up. If it was a hurtful situation then chances are she may not contact him but if not, there is always the possibility. You are the only one who knows her very well to know what she might or might not do. However, there is no reason for you to dumb her unless you have proof or if you just feel this is relationship is not going anywhere.

Answer 6

Oh,my God what a complicated story?Do you hear yourself and most important do you belive what you are saying?
Go there and find out the answers or wait for her to come back to put the questions!Some strangers or other persons will always complicate the things!

Answer 7

So, you're worring if you girlfriend is gonna get back with her ex.
Why should you care if youre trying to get with your ex?

Answer 8

Go out somewhere and have fun dont worry bout her.

Answer 9

jus hav fun as much as u can how can she come to know

Answer 10

if she loves you she won't hang out w/ her ex.Do you trust her? if you do you know she wont cuz she loves you.