what should i expect from the guy? on my "date" we went to the mall and he wouldn't walk beside me, we barely spoke, he was on the phone alot, and he kept trying to make out with me under the security cameras. and then we went to his truck and he was blasting rap music and he made-out with me and fingered me. and then after an hour or so of driving around in silence, he drove me home. it sucked. how can i find a better guy? and what should i expect on the date?
2006-07-01 07:51:39 · 6 answers · asked by lifeistough_period 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm 16. and i had to get in the car with him, he was my ride home!!
2006-07-01 07:57:17 · update #1
Find a guy you like, whom you feel you can talk to and who doesn't mind talking to you instead of making you feel cheap. That's the kind of guy you want and need. They are pretty much hard to find, so good luck!
2006-07-01 07:54:30 · answer #1 · answered by knifelvr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well alot of guys will go as far as you let them. This was your first date? You went WAY TOO FAR. If the guy really likes you for you he will wait for sex. So you need to decide what you want from them. Keep up the pace you're at you will be an unwed mother. Love and respect doesn't come from giving in...it comes from being yourself and finding the right guy for you. Sometimes it's very time consuming. But better to be alone than with the wrong guy.
2006-07-01 14:57:48 · answer #2 · answered by Male_Naughty_By_Nature 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was not a real date, that guy was a jerk!! You shold expect to be the guys main focus. There will be phone call he has to take but if he's going to be on the phone the whole time, he better make it up to you. Don't lower your expectations of a date cus of one lousy one. You are ment to be with someone who you think is perfect, and don't stop till you find him!
Good Luck!
2006-07-01 14:57:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you went out with a sick bastard, who only wanted a good lay, to brag about it to his friends. Not all of us men are like that, but I would recommend that you get to know a guy a little better before you agree to go out with him. If you find a guy you are interested in, or is interested in you, talk to him and find out his interests are. If it looks like a dating relationship is possible, then ask him what he thinks is proper dating behavior.
But, most of all, have more self-respect for yourself. If a guy tries to do that to you again, make him know that you are not that type of girl! You don't have to take that type of crap, nor should you! I hope you find a guy who is worthy of the beautiful person you sound like you are!!
2006-07-01 15:00:00 · answer #4 · answered by rhino 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that depends on how old you are, without knowing that its really hard to say. that guy was definitely a jerk and you figured that out while still in the mall, in the future when you figure out that a guy is a jerk get away from him immediately, don't get in a vehicle with him alone...don't forget they can be dangerous too, especially for an inexperienced, naive girl. be careful.
2006-07-01 14:56:07 · answer #5 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
will first if it is your first date u should not be making-out or have him fingering u. that make u seem e-z, if the is not talking to u and just want to make-out he is after one thing and that is not who u should be with. on a real date u talk get to know each other and see if he like u 4u. and not just 4 sex. and always make shore that u have money4 a cab .
2006-07-01 15:00:17 · answer #6 · answered by mooikey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋