why is it that any time i approach a gurl i will have no for an answer?please advice me on what i should do?

Answer 1

You probably don't look confident when you approach. Body language is a big factor. If you look or act desperate, you'll get shot down. Doesn't matter what you say, it's how you say it.

Answer 2

Don't be big headed about it, not saying you are but it just don't work. You should be sweet and do it with no distractions. If they say no then you can't let it get you down, there is someone who will say yes.

I'm so glad you have the confidence to approach a girl, cus most guys are wimps.

Answer 3

OK... well since i am one i should have some good advice.Well most sterotype girls will say no to you due to your social status or your looks.Do you have any friends who are girls?Sometimes even really good friends who are girls might like you.And mostly it depends on the way or where you ask.If the girl you ask is wit her friends,and they aren't too fond of you,well she wouldn't wanna lose her so called friends so embarasses you unstead.But if your a shy guy.....then......maybe a nice note would be good.But if you really like this girl and your kinda a goody 2 shoes then get in to sum trouble,ack funny,don't be pushed around,girls like guys like that.

Answer 4

Well first of all what are you doing when you approach them? That would be your first problem. You gotta make an impression(and a good one at that) if you want them to give you a second glance.

Answer 5

Well not every time will be a 'No'. Everyone, EVERYONE, strikes out 9 times out of 10. Eventually, one will say 'Yes'.

Of course, you could try changing the type of girl your asking out. If your a computer geek and your asking out jock girls, your chances are slim(though not impossible)....you might want to try computer geek girls.

Basically, you just have to ask and ask and ask and ask,,,

Answer 6

How do you approach them???