2006-07-01 07:35:37 · 22 answers · asked by silk_escore 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well u can casually bump into her and start with an "oh, im so sorry" then move on to " i have seen u around, i am ______, u r ? (or say her name if u know it) if u know her from being someones friend throw that in there. say something like ..how would u like to go to the..(park)..(beach)..(for ice cream)..start with something in the day time..that way its not so much a date for her yet..then if it goes well..afta a few times of hanging out..then ask her for a date..READ THIS ok so that it dont sound like u r askin her out on a date at first ..make sure u throw in a or just hang out sometime..and follow it up with a or " whatever u like to do". maybe if she dont know u then u can add a ..since i dont know that many ppl, maybe u and i can just hang out sometime if u like ( the if u like part is important, then if she is receptive) offer up ur phone number. now we like to play alil hard to get so if she doesnt call right away its ok..dont hound her. hope this helps..since i am a hottie female be glad u got advice from someone who has helped out so many not so lucky guys in this area.
2006-07-01 07:47:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Depends on the situation. What I look for is that unhurried, nonchalant look. If they have that then they are just chilling and hanging out and will be easier to talk to. Just walk over and say hi. Tell her you noticed her from across the room or whatever and you wanted to say hi and see if she was interested in getting a coffee or seeing a movie. MAKE SURE THERE IS NO RING ON HER FINGER AND SHES NOT THERE WITH A BOYFRIEND (made that mistake once). Anyway if she smiles and blushes or doesn't completely blow you off, throw a few compliments her way. If she's looking at clothes and has something in her hands tell her it would look very nice on her. Just be yourself and if she takes a liking to you, that's awesome, if not remember that there are plenty of other fish in the sea.
2006-07-01 07:42:50 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to know her is to approach her . Ask some of your buddies what they would say to someone like that. Ask her something about the surroundings- school, job, Or tell her she looks kinda like paris hilton (or somebody famous with the same hair color) -that works for me...tell her a funny joke -get her to laugh...girls like to laugh ----good luck!
2006-07-01 07:50:28 · answer #3 · answered by Danica Fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just thought I might share my story and you might get some clues from it:
I was learning how to indoor rockbclimb and I was already in this group with an instructor. Well, I was having trouble learning how to tie a knot to my harness, so this other young instructor came up to me and started helping me. Then throughout the day he would randomly walk up to my group of friends and start talking to us, and he was really funny and charming. Well, here we are bf and gf for 7 months:)
2006-07-01 07:41:54 · answer #4 · answered by beth a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go up to her one day and say something polite or try to notice something about her that yall might have in common or casually bump into her one day. Or you could always find a friend that knows you and the girl and get them to introduce you to her.
2006-07-01 07:41:24 · answer #5 · answered by DanceDiva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT be touchy feely thats a HUGE NO-NO she could have a bf and then she tell him and he kill you.
But anyways
Take it slowly and walk up to her and say "excuse, whered you get that/those...[here insert anything of hers-phone,ring,earing,maybe even shoes-],or if you see she has an ipod,or any mp3 player doody, ask her what she listens to and that youd like to hear.
If she answers in a way that you feel is positive ask her her name and then give her yours.
Just be yourself no matter what and dont lie about things like what car you have and such.
also make sure you look clean(not pretty,just dont lok like you got your butt kicked or anyting liek that) and that your breath is ok
hope this helps.
2006-07-01 07:43:31 · answer #6 · answered by jimmy_billy_bob 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this seems simplistic, but you just have to do it.
I'm not saying that is easy, but it's just sort of what you have to do. One thing you might think about is just to walk up next to her and comment on something she's wearing... it doesn't really matter what you say, just anything to break the ice. Be funny, be self-efacing, and don't be crude...
But most of all, don't worry... if she ignores you, then it doesn't matter. Most people won't though.... then you just talk to her, like you would anyone else!
2006-07-01 07:40:13 · answer #7 · answered by alvin_tostig 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy!! Tell her you would like to be the most popular guy in school ( Clique, whatever ) so would she go out with you??
Better yet ( and this works ) ask for her parents phone #. When she asks why, and she will, tell her you want to thank them for an execellent job!!
2006-07-01 07:41:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go up to her and say hi. Introduce yourself. Ask her bout herself a bit but don't ask her stuipid questions and be a good listener, girls like that. Just be a gentleman.
2006-07-01 07:39:44 · answer #9 · answered by K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Backwards.
2006-07-01 07:37:38 · answer #10 · answered by Grandpa Shark 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋