hey ya'all well i was datin a guy for quite a while now, we broke up and he went out with another chick and left to a different country some time ago. anyway long story short, recently i found out that while he was wit me, he was with about 3 other girls as well.i wanna do something so that if and wen he comes back to this country every girl wod no hes a playa! any suggestions?
2006-07-01 07:25:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweetie, the best thing you can do to him is to move on with your life. He's not the only man left, there are many more on earth. Find another man and move on. WHEN he comes back to the country. let him look you up. Let him chase you. When he finds you, be a woman of few words. And make sure you speak to him only in passing...as if he's not worth the time it would take for you to STOP and have a decent conversation. Resist the urge to 'get him told'. Trust me...this SH** works like a charm!!
2006-07-01 07:35:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do Not waste your time on this fool obviously he is not worthy of you. Do not take up any space in your head trying to pay someone back who did you wrong it never works out right and the other chicks need to find out for their selves the same way you did. If you do seek revenge you will prove yourself to be just as low as he. The best revenge is moving on with your life and not wasting anymore time on this dud, trust me he will recognize your moving on before anything devious you may do .
2006-07-01 07:34:46 · answer #2 · answered by mdboomskwad.mc4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is..forget it.. it would be a great victory for u if u flushed him totally outta ur system like he was severe diarrhoea. Planning to get back at him and all shows u r still hung up on him and he'll have one over u about that. Such guys meet their own ugly fate by themselves.. they dig their own graves.. so u get on with ur life and act like he was of leaaaaaaaassst importance in your life! now that would be cool!
2006-07-01 07:31:48 · answer #3 · answered by princess h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one, and I mean NO ONE is going to listen to you. They may listen, but they will really only view YOU as a vengeful person who is still hung up on the guy. Whatever you say won't stop girls from dating him. There are ALWAYS fools out there who could care less.
2006-07-01 07:29:36 · answer #4 · answered by lcamel2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I watched an episode of Montel recently and they had this girl that developed her own website where you can post his name, pic, description, and what he did on this website. I visited it and you can type in a name of a guy to see if he's a cheater before you date him. It's called dontdatehimgirl.com
Then, get on with your life and forget him!! He's not worth it!!
Good Luck!!!!
2006-07-01 07:31:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, get on with your life, put down the negative energy, and get happy. You will not move on with these feelings, and you will find that revenge is hollow at best, disappointing usually, and there just isn't ever "even enough."
2006-07-01 07:27:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u dont need to let everyone know but to get back at him make out with his best/ guy friend in front of this guy that u went out with and payback is done or u can yell at him for cheating on u in front of alot of people.
2006-07-01 07:29:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes,get back with him and bite him in that sensitive place!
It is the best pay back, because if he is not with you he will not be with the others as well!
2006-07-01 07:30:51 · answer #8 · answered by faunpas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Him seeing you being happy and moving on with your life would give him so much guilt. If he saw that you were still dwelling on it, it would give him more satisfaction. Live and let live.
2006-07-01 07:30:02 · answer #9 · answered by Mischelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell your friends around you that you know and they will do the rest for you sweet forget him and move on you are better that him so don't let it both you and trust god to guide you he will never let you down bluehawk
2006-07-01 07:32:15 · answer #10 · answered by jlr2713 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋