we were making out and stuff and i felt absolutely nothing towards him. so i said that i had to be home earlier, and so we didn't have sex. am i a lesbian because i didn't feel anything?
2006-07-01 07:25:08 · 11 answers · asked by lifeistough_period 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not feeling anything toward a guy doesn't mean you're a lesbian. You can't be expect to be attracted to *every* guy. You can't even expect to be attracted to *most* guys.
2006-07-01 07:36:09 · answer #1 · answered by VinTek 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to be a lesbian because you didn't feel anything towards him. Sometimes you don't have feelings for somebody. You need to ask yourself if you are a lesbian nobody can figure that out for you! Are you more attracted to females?
2006-07-01 14:31:48 · answer #2 · answered by EverybodysJealousOfMe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just didn't feel anything for that guy, it doesn't mean you are a lesbian. It is best to wait until after marriage for sex anyway. (Being a lesbian is just wrong.)
2006-07-01 14:32:47 · answer #3 · answered by soccerloverls 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No Not at all dear U r perfectly alright You can make love with someone when u feel something otherwise what u have is only Sex. You have done the right thing so don't worry
2006-07-01 14:30:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes because you went home early that makes you a lesbian.
2006-07-01 14:28:45 · answer #5 · answered by Grandpa Shark 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u aint a lesbian. u just probaly was not really feelin dude at dat time
2006-07-01 14:29:41 · answer #6 · answered by Blaine Train 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good line...think of some more probably not a lesbian
2006-07-01 14:27:33 · answer #7 · answered by clubcar641 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it just means either the moment was right or you just don't have sexual feelings for the guy. Don't just to conclusions just becuz of one bad incident
2006-07-01 14:29:17 · answer #8 · answered by megans_98 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be but, most likely your not, sometimes you just don't like people.
2006-07-01 14:29:08 · answer #9 · answered by JohnnyStonehaven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, there was just no chemistry between you two.
2006-07-01 14:35:15 · answer #10 · answered by beth a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋