He confess to me that he loves me but he tells me the truth that he knows that he will really have no time for me because he's kinda busy with his school and stuffs..so he prefers to be unattached but sometimes its killing me because i dont know if he really cares or he wana take it slow...furthermore we seldom met..wad shud i do because i really do love him..
2006-07-01 07:18:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask him to define what love means to him. (Did he make you feel special?). Even if he doesn't have time for romance, he should have time to foster a relationship with you.
Find someone you can build a relationship with. Is he afraid of something, like commitment, or secret that you may found out? True love is not a feeling, but acceptance of a person even at the worst moments. The good feelings come after you build a rock solid relationship of trust, understanding, and respect. Keep him as an acquittance, but closeness look for someone that shares your goals, your vision, and your outlook on the world.
2006-07-01 07:29:23 · answer #1 · answered by Cory B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he really loved you, he wouldn't be able to stand being without you, he would find a way to make it work. I think he wants to stay unattached so he can keep his options open. But if you want to believe him, then you should just be patient and wait I guess...but what will get more results from him than anything is acting like you don't care, give him the space, and going out on dates yourself, making sure he knows about them. Good Luck!
2006-07-01 07:24:46 · answer #2 · answered by ThatsNachocheese 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love waits. You've probably heard that eleventy-billion times before but it's true.
I guess you gotta ask yourself if he's worth waiting for and if he's going to hold out for you.
And don't focus on the now so much, you have plenty of time ahead of you. If he slacks off with "school and stuffs" to spend time with you then later on he'll have plenty of time because he won't be able to get a solid job.
Just keep talking things through. But it shouldn't be limited to just "to date or not to date." there is so much more than that.
2006-07-01 07:37:08 · answer #3 · answered by VegaOrion 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True Love Waits
2006-07-01 07:21:53 · answer #4 · answered by Brian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You make your self busy with school and sports,and maybe you will be even More attractive to him when you become more like him.Take it slow wait for him for the right reasons and you will gain a great healthy future.
2006-07-01 07:23:31 · answer #5 · answered by Andrea M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read a book called 'He's just not that into you'
The title sums it up, no matter what he says to you - if he really loved you, he would crawl over broken glass to get to you, busy or not.
Sorry to be brutal, but you mustn't waste time being unhappy - life is too short :)
2006-07-01 07:22:46 · answer #6 · answered by charleymac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont imagine you're incorrect for stressful about the girls. Your thoughts are very valid. it isn't a strong concept to come back with a needed different who had cheated or lied (or in spite of else) this quickly. human beings are consistently attempting to "make him teach that he loves me" or "make him replace"... the actuality is in case you come back with him now, you'll merely be accepting him AS IS. If he somewhat needs you back, you both want time aside to heal and strengthen. tell him you would opt to have a 12 months separate, unmarried, and in man or woman counseling earlier you should attempt back. Heal your wounds and be prepared for the subsequent time you come back jointly. in case you stay chop up, and he nonetheless messes round, you comprehend that he's not waiting to strengthen up and your existence is happier without him at this element. i have been in this difficulty earlier, went back, same element surpassed off, and we are finally chop up "for strong". I truly have grown up a lot on condition that I left and that i'm now equipped to understand a pink flag when I see one. he continues to be with the female he left me for and hasnt grown one bit and that i'm satisfied as a clam. strong success and safeguard your self :)
2016-10-14 00:59:04 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not his first choice if he said this.. he wants all his options open.. he has not found out what he wants in you.. there is a spark missing..
men or boys who say this. is becouse they want to play the field. my daughter went though this.. in the end her heart was broken.. but over all she found a man who wanted only her and well he married her. on the 4th is there 1yrs aniversery.. and well i have a granddaughter.. i love her so much..
so she got a better man in the end..
this man let him go so you can find a man who will really love you..
2006-07-01 07:24:19 · answer #8 · answered by sillyatheart3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really love him that much i guess give him time.. but really think about this because you are wasting good years on him if he really does not love you enough to commit to a relationship with you..i wasted 25 years in a abusive relationship and i did not get out of it without damage to me...so really think about this... do you want to continue to wait on him.. i do not understand if he loves you why he can not find more time to spend with you....
2006-07-01 07:24:23 · answer #9 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you are in love you make time.i work alot and so does my husband, but we always find time to be together.always have since we were dating
2006-07-01 07:21:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋