I had breast that didn't form right and were really small. I had surgery to fix them and implants but they still look weird and I have noticable scars on them around the areola (dark part) I feel like I don't want to date b/c i would be embarrassed for him to see me naked. If some falls for me will seeing my breasts change that b/c I know breasts are pretty important to some guys and he might not want to not have nice breasts to play with.
2006-07-01 06:45:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sure some guys would have an adverse reaction, but you sound like a sweet girl, so I would not have a problem with it. Don't be ashamed, everybody has body issues and if a guy can't accept you, then f*** him. Keep your head up, sweetie :)
2006-07-01 06:51:26 · answer #1 · answered by DIRT MCGIRT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you asking if it would stop a person from falling in love with you or from falling in lust with you. Neither. Love has to deal with more than just body parts but with the mind and personailty of the person in question such as yourself. Not all men are breast men some are leg men and some are butt men. Once you have confidence in yourself you will be able to overcome all aspect of yourself. We are each made different not all of are Brad Pitts of the world and not all are Jessica Simpsons of the world.
2006-07-01 06:53:20 · answer #2 · answered by justduh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are torturing yourself unecessarily! It really is not bad. The breasts are one minor part of the whole package. Everyone has some scars and this or that. No one os totally perfect even those models are all touched up in the pictures. When you see them in person you see all kinds of flaws. That is what makes us individuals. Don't be self-conscious about it. Be yourself. Be safe. You'll find someone that appreciates you completely.
2006-07-01 06:52:08 · answer #3 · answered by George J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
should listen to the majority, if a guy falls in love with chances are it wasnt your breasts. Us guys maybe dogs but cmon give us a lil credit. If he loves you it wont matter how your breast looks or how any part of your body you think it looks. The guy would want to be with you reguardless.
2006-07-01 07:00:43 · answer #4 · answered by Chunky G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey...looks aren't anything. I'm proud of you for actually coming out and asking for help with your concerns. Well, sure, guys like other stuff, but it's not like they'll hate you because of your breasts! Just be confident, and prove to thise guys that there's more to a girl than breasts. Show your personality, and someday, a guy'll find you. Don't worry. Also, if you think you found "the guy", don't tell him about it, until you're sure he won't judge you because of it. Then, tell him privately about it. I'm sure, if he's right for you, he won't mind.
My boyfriend who I love dearly (I'm 14) isn't a "chest man", and I'm personally self-concious about my breasts. He doesn't mind. That;s what you want to look for. If he cares, he's not right.
2006-07-01 06:51:57 · answer #5 · answered by reason_needed 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would say that a guy will love you for who you are,
not how your breasts look , that would be a very shallow
guy if that was a reason to break up and therefor you would be better off without him
2006-07-01 06:51:48 · answer #6 · answered by BONE° 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did u get breast implants in the first place
if a guy can't love u for u///..then he doesn't deserve..u
when u meet the right guy...he wouldn't care about your imperfections...b/c he has some too..
girl u should be proud of your body...even if your breasts aren't perfect..u are beautiful dont care what other people think
2006-07-01 08:16:58 · answer #7 · answered by Immortal Goddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really loves you it will not matter. If it does he is not the guy you are looking for.
2006-07-01 07:13:28 · answer #8 · answered by genwizz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its true love then its for your personality, a lil looks count but not ur boobs, find a real man not a jerk
2006-07-01 06:49:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some do like th girls breast tbut they also like the butt and the girls " " thing
2006-07-01 06:47:25 · answer #10 · answered by Jeffy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋