I love him 100% but I am not very pretty...I was good to him and never made any problems in the 2 years we where together. He left me for a prettier girl. I never drink but at this moment I am drinking beer alone in my room. I called in sick at work today and life sucks.
I wrote this poem a few moments ago...I hope you like it.
warm winds turning cool now...he is nowhere in sight...these days pass by so slowly...they fade of sunlight...when will I see him and hold him so tight...warm winds turning cool now...he is nowhere in sight.
farewell to love!
2006-07-01 06:17:14 · 14 answers · asked by Seeker 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yo girl I know how that goes but I will tell you this dont despair its called karma just keep looking and you will find an even better man
fallen.angel_love@yahoo.com
2006-07-01 06:21:37 · answer #1 · answered by fallen.angel_love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself this did he leave you because she was prettier or is there a deeper reason? It just doesn't make sense unless he's like 10 which I doubt since you say you're drinking. YOu'll never truly know why he left you unless he told you or tells you which I highly doubt. I think it's good that you took a sick day you are mourning a relationship there's nothing wrong with that give it time and you'll start to feel better. Don't you think it's good he left you for a prettier girl rather than an ugly girl my b.f. of 2 years cheated on me with 2 girls which not to be conceited but I know I was prettier then them and that hurt so much because I knew it wasn't a physical thing it was a personal thing. That made me question myself so much that I lost myself for sometime until I realized it's not about me it was about him and his problems. You'll be ok give it time eat junk food and veg. out for a week or two but after that no more it's time to get off the couch and move on with your life because there's still a whole world out there waiting for you. Good Luck!
2006-07-01 06:30:15 · answer #2 · answered by Trish H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry your allowing him to put u throught this.
U say u loved him 100% but ur not pretty,
u never dranked, u called in sick and life sucks.
This is what u need to do.
Realize that u life don't revolve around him or any other guy.
If he left u for another girl,after 2 yrs just because she 's prettier it's on him,,,, not u
U shouldn't allow that to get u down to the point of drinking, missing work ( the good part is ur good at writing poems) but u need to let go and move on he's not worth u msiing work or go for the bottle.
She ( the pretty girl) is the one who's with a jerk for a boyfriend, if he goes for looks then that means he will leave her for a girl who's prettier then she. So u see he's not worth it because he goes for the outside package.
So pour that beer down the drain( wash u hair with it, it'll be like washing him out of ur hair) go back to work and keep writing poems, but happy ones and when it's right u will meet someone who loves u back, 100% , u can write poems about how happy u r with him and u can brag about it to ur co-workers
2006-07-01 06:39:55 · answer #3 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart first of all, you will be OK. It is going to suck for awhile but you will be OK.
Now #1) people don't leave you because someone is prettier and #2) people don't stay because you "never made any problems". The sooner you realize that the happier you will be.
There is a book out there called "The Rules". It advocates doing anything to get married - at the expense of being yourself. There is a huge problem with this! The man gets to be happy and you will NEVER be. You can't be afraid to be yourself and make problems, fight, pout or be happy, make jokes, or a fool or yourself. You want someone who wants the real you. Divorce and failed marriages are more painful than failed relationships.
Wallow in your pity, you deserve it..you do. And then get back on the horse and get yourself someone that you deserve and who deserves you. PS great poem, keep up the healing.
2006-07-01 06:31:37 · answer #4 · answered by theworldmatters 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not worth mourning over. If he left you for a pretty girl he isn't worth it. I would have to say you need to move on. Why would you want a guy that just left you for a prettier girl. I think your ex is an asswhole. Move on get a better man. And stop drinking!!! It won't help anything. It may even make matters worth.
2006-07-01 06:22:56 · answer #5 · answered by LUST 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know in the date sites there is guys always looking for a gal that is pretty, tall, long legs. But I have figured out they are shallow people. They want a show piece not a companion. Not someone their equal.
If he really cared about you he could have put you on that pedestal. I think I found someone. He isn't what I would normally go for. But he treats me like I treat a guy. I'm very giving, very caring, and like spending all my spare time with them. The others haven't been that way.
2006-07-01 06:33:47 · answer #6 · answered by B D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has nothing to do with who prettier. Its him and his problem with commitment. Right know yourself esteem is just low and thats how you feel. Not everyone will thinks shes prettier. Everyone has different types. If he left just because she prettier then he'll do the same to her. He's no good for you anyway. He's to shallow. As soon as some else comes along he'll be gone again. Just let God deal with him move on with your life and let him see your better off woth out him.
2006-07-01 06:26:12 · answer #7 · answered by TASHA B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that! But do you think its worth it crying for a cheat? Love is about heart not looks. I am sure he is going to cheat this new girl for another prettier girl. MAy God give you courage to get over him. The poem is good.
2006-07-01 06:22:50 · answer #8 · answered by traveller 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are physical creatures and womyn are emotional creatures. THIS is why when MEN cheat it's purely physcial and when WOMYN cheat its purely emotional.
Your man left you for a prettier girl because HE does NOT want an emotional relationship. Hes a jerk. He will leave her for a prettier girl and so on.
So what if your ugly. Uglier womyn make better wives than hot womyn, fat womyn make better wives than ugly womyn. Why? Pretty womyn nag, don't make any sense, and usually can't cook worth a crap. Get over it.
2006-07-01 06:22:43 · answer #9 · answered by Poestalker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww! Well, I think if that's the reason he left you, he wasnt a great guy to begin with and he's not good enough for you. Keep searching- you'll find your Prince Charming!
Nice poem too,!
2006-07-01 06:24:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋