How can I tell if he cares?

Question

I like this guy. He is 3 yearolder then me... He says I'm too young for him but I think he still likes me. I put my head on his shoulder and he put his head on mine. I know that some people might say "he toldly like you." I'm not sure though because he is a huge flirt and he hugs and bits girls on the neck... I'm not sure if he likes me. How would I be able to tell if he has feelings for me?

He already knows how I feel about him.... I really love him.

I told him how I felt at like 1 in the morning in a text message and then he called me and we talked for a little while. He told me he was srry but I am to young for him and that we can just be friends. I told him I wasn't sure if we could just be friends because it would kill me. I'm not sure he heard me when I said that because we were talking on a cellphone.

Answer 1

well if he is doing that to u when u do it to him then he does but another way to tell is ask him to go to the movies with you or just to go for a walk in the park or somewhere it doesnt matter just ask him and if he shows and say u forget ur jacket and its a cold night and ur cold and he offers u his jacket in a sweet way and then asks if ur warm just say not completeley then he may give u a hug and if he asks again just say yeah and if he hugs u for awhile like 5 more minutes then he does have feelings for cause thats the same thing i did to my boyfriend accept we were at camp and ihad a jacket but i was still cold. so find some things that will maybe have to make him show that he has feelings for u and that he does care about you. but dont get hurt if u find out that he doesnt and the whole time he was doing those things to you he was just messin with you so basicly becareful.

Answer 2

Well, he seems to be giving you an excuse. "Too young for me" Bah!
You said it yourself. That he is a flirt. So, dont push yourself on him. Dont read too much from his actions towards you, yet.
If you really like, try ignoring him for a while. Act cool and not needy. See what he does and how he behaves.
In any case, men get less interested when they get the girl. So, be yourself but always be cool and non-clingy.

Answer 3

If he says he is too old for you then that may be a sign. You are young and have plenty of time anyway. Don't waste your time because it looks like he isn't giving you his attention. It sounds like he does'nt want anything to me because of his actions. remember, actions speak louder than words@!!

Answer 4

the best thing to do is to tell him that you like him and ask if he likes you. it might be scary but if you can do it hopefully he'll give you a straight answer. if you really like him just sit down and talk to him for a while good luck *_*

Answer 5

be honest with him and tell him how you feel and tell him you want to know if he feels the same way about you. DO NOT sleep with him the first or second time se says "i love you". get to know each other first, like likes and dislikes,favorite movie,foods,music, etc. good luck.

Answer 6

You can tell when a dude cares when.... He goes out of his way to do something for you; calls you in the middle of the nite jus to see what your doing. He's not in a rush to have $eX

Answer 7

He is seems like a good player. Guys dont have feelings. They just wanna get laid. trust me

Answer 8

if he says you're too young for him, he's probably not interested. If he was interested, he'd tell you age didn't matter.

Answer 9

maybe he's suffering from lack of wholesome genetic cecombination in the merozygote......heck, i'm in my forties & have no problem telling younger girls i love them....maybe he does?
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Answer 10

just get the guts to ask him but remember guys will do anything to get you in bed